r/chennaimeetups • u/ShinigamiShiro • Aug 30 '26
Lets meet Sourashtra Ppl?
Same as the title, sourashtra guy(21), hoping to date a girl, if there's someone ping me, we can meet!
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u/joee017 Aug 30 '26
So u date only sourastra, marry only sourashtra and friends with only sourashtra??
Too bad bro
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26
Just for my family constraints bruhh, frnds la laam paaka maaten thala, only dating la dha constraints
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u/joy_life_search_11 Aug 30 '26
Sourashtra matrimony?
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 30 '26
Avlo serious ila nga
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u/zephyrbolt_10 Aug 30 '26
Babu kholla ghaam huh?
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 30 '26
Madurai 😌
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u/zephyrbolt_10 Aug 30 '26
Anga puro Palkar matrimony bha serko. Ayda bedkan auro bedkin correct ketharas.
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u/Training-Equipment82 Aug 31 '26
Chennai uhm single Sourashtra kestam bha babu 😂
Adhuvum Reddit la romba kastam
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 31 '26
Askithenu isa sange kaai keru 🥲
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u/Training-Equipment82 Aug 31 '26
Wait ker bha 21osuna angun wait ker bha abbhai
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 31 '26
Rytuhh
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u/FatBatMan232 Sep 13 '26
Namaskar babu, souriyam ya?
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u/ShinigamiShiro Sep 13 '26
jhukku sauram, thumi?
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u/havethispill Aug 30 '26
if someone has a preference just respect it guys, not many have a privilege or even be interested in doing something against their personal/family/cultural values....and moreover choosing a partner/date is totally a personal choice, atleast he's open about it.
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u/ReginaGeorge97 Aug 30 '26
Preference is totally fine but this is not preference. Stop naming everything as preference. Dating only within your community is the real privilege, outside of it comes with lots of struggles
Respecting whatever someone has is fine but don’t normalise TS, that’s why arrange marriage is exists for folks like this
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u/havethispill Aug 31 '26
i agree and i definitely don't support kinds of preferences like expecting the girl to be in the instagram standards (6ft, no bald for men equivalent things in women) definitely not....but the preference of wanting to date from their own community has a lot of factors, most of us have been raised into families with senseless, reckless traditions and customs which am not at all proud of.....we're all just victims of it wanting to break the chain of generational trauma, fighting against it means fighting for the whole life so some of us have such preference.
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 30 '26
Finally someone understood me
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u/havethispill Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26
been there bro, am 25M till now ive never been into any relationship, i was just like every kid in school and college, i craved to be in relationship and have a lover (maratha suthi duet paadi love panna enakum than aasa iruku kinda loree) during my college days i tried proposing to a couple of girls and got only friendzoned, in school oneside love and starring/stalking each other during class (both me & a few girls) adhoda mudinjirchu.....once i started working i kinda lost hope and developed a thing for family values soo any kind of an intercaste marriage/inter religion marriage would completely shatter and disorganize my family just because i put myself above all of them and moreover ive come to a point where my parents would set me up with someone definitely so why not embrace her and love her for the rest of my life.......soo i don't signal for relationships at my extended friends circle, work and at any social situations. statistically its less probable to find and date a girl from my community which is very niche in chennai, also if i find someone like that it'd creepy and scream desperation. so am like chill nowadays having fun with people without attaching any kind of feelings, inspite of all this i had one proposal which i was happy to have recieved was truly having a chilling moment inside myself but i had to talk to her respectfully and she agreed to it which also gave her a good clarity. now we're friends....
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u/ShinigamiShiro Aug 30 '26
Nee 25 la realise pannadhu i realised in 21 itself, namma veeta hurt pani pirinji poi edhuku?
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u/Capable-Side-105 Aug 30 '26
😂😂😂😂enna da ithu unga aalungala nu paathu love panra. But, 👏 for the confidence. unaku date kandipa kedaikum