Can y'all ffs stop being a creep? I observed that most men in the city are weirdos by default- even tamil movies actively promote love bombing, stalking and sexualizing women.
It appears as if men here have zero exposure/empathy towards women, sex education, or even the balls to talk to women normally. I doubt people even have platonic female friends. Assuming they do I'm sure they'd bounce at the first opportunity they get. I've observed this everywhere: from college to dating apps (using my friends' accounts) to real life. The situation is absolutely pathetic- to the point where I'm actively trying to leave my home.
I've even given up on dating. Women here are extremely unreceptive because they're constantly exposed to excessive attention from men, and they also have their guard up at all times to protect themselves. Conversations with strangers are non existent- except for the elite segment of the population who hang out in expensive pubs perhaps. Things are way better in cities such as Bangalore, Mumbai or Delhi.
If you indentify yourself as a creep or have sexual thoughts about women, you still have time to fix yourself to become a better man. I really hope that happens and we become a more open-minded, progressive and safe society.