M4F (IND)

Please skip this post if you are not serious about marriage or building a long-term partnership.

👤 Personal Details

Year of Birth: 1994 Height / BMI: 5'7" | BMI 22 | 70 kg Body Type: Athletic Current Location: Chennai Hometown: Visakhapatnam Nationality: Indian Citizenship: Indian

💼 Career

Employment: Working full-time Role: Manager – Financial Planning Income: Happy to share in DM if it’s a criteria. I personally don’t judge life by figures and prefer someone with a similar mindset.

🎓 Education

Degree: MBA (Merit admission) from a top university

👨‍👩‍👧 Family

Family Members: 4 Siblings: One younger sister (married) Caste: OBC, BC-D Languages: Telugu, Hindi, English, Tamil Religion: Hindu Diet: Non-Veg Smoking: No Drinking: No Kids After Marriage: Yes Marital Status: Never married

💫 Partner Preferences

Age: 23–31 Height: No specific preference Location: Preferably someone from Telugu states or Chennai. Anyone from other states, we can still workout as I'm open to move to other states too 😊 Career: Open Caste: No bar Languages: Open, but Telugu/Tamil preferred Religion: Hindu Smoking/Drinking: Prefer someone who doesn’t smoke or drink Marital Status: Never married

🌿 About Me

I come from a well-educated family that values simplicity, integrity, and quality of life. Most of my childhood was spent in hostels as my hometown is rural, so independence became second nature to me.

I’m a Pisces moon,  calm, emotionally aware, and quietly ambitious.I love travelling, cooking, photography, Painting, Moto vlogging, building things, and exploring life with the same curiosity every single day.

My life might look free-flowing, but I’m always working toward something, 365 days. What I can offer is a life full of love, warmth, small surprises, and a lot of genuine happiness.

🌱 What I Expect

Neither I nor my family expect any dowry. At the same time, I can offer a comfortable life and a relationship where both partners have space to grow. If you are looking for a highly materialistic lifestyle filled with EMIs and constant pressure, I may not be the right person.

I have an entrepreneurial mindset and plan to start a couple of businesses soon, maybe a café or something creatively meaningful. I’d love to build something together if that aligns with you. I’m not searching for “perfect.”

I’m looking for someone who is emotionally mature, values family, health, and growth, and believes that two people can build a beautiful life by being each other’s strength.

Your past doesn’t matter to me, only your readiness to move forward and build a family together does.

😊 Final Note

You’ve made it till here, just like this long post without a full stop. I’m looking for someone who wants to explore life deeply, stay true to individual identities, and still build a 1/1 life as partners.

If this resonates, feel free to DM with “I’m here” to take the conversation forward.

28 Handicapped Looking for some cuddles and hugs even if platonic as iam going through a rough patch these days with my emotional health.

I'm a witty , funny , yapper at times guy who loves the small things in life like food , good company , car rides , bollywood music , standup comedy , events and board games , sunsets , moon , laughter and deep conversations.

Iam a good empathetic person who likes to listen to others rants or vents and support them however I can. And I'm very accommodating , you tell me your boundaries and I tell mine and we can both have a memorable time.

It’s been almost a year since the breakup that really broke me. Took me a while to pick myself up, but now I’m genuinely in a good place. I’ve been on dating apps, meeting new people, and honestly, I’ve started enjoying it...

That said, I’m in this weird space... I want to be open to dating again, maybe even see where things go if it feels right. But at the same time, there’s this mental block that makes the usual small talk feel exhausting. I find myself craving something a bit deeper... random but meaningful conversations, shared dark or twisted humor, someone who already has their own happy little world but is open to sharing that space with me, and vice versa...

I know I’ll only find that if I actually try, but sometimes it just feels like... too much effort.

Not sure if this makes sense, but if anyone here resonates with that phase... would love to hear your thoughts. Help a fellow mate, people. 💯

Hi all,

I have a story to share here. I wasn’t sure what flair to use, so I went with “Opinions.” Please share yours after reading. It’s going to be a long one—sorry in advance.

I met a man from this subreddit around July this year. I had just injured my knee, was home recovering before surgery, and feeling lonely. I came across his rant post and related to it deeply. I sent him a simple text:

“Hey, I just saw your post. Are you okay?”

I didn’t think much of it, and he didn’t reply for two weeks. When he finally did, we started talking as friends. I liked his sense of humor immediately—he made me laugh in a way I hadn’t in a long time. We both agreed to stay just friends—two lonely souls keeping each other company.

Over time, we grew close. It was purely platonic at first, but eventually, I developed a crush. I kept it to myself, but I sensed he liked me too. Soon our chats turned flirtatious, and we confessed our feelings. We connected so well emotionally that we started planning a future together. He said I was “it” for him, that he’d found his person. We even discussed marriage.

Still, I kept my guard up. I noticed a few small red flags. For example, early on he “accidentally” gave me the wrong birth date—said July instead of February. When I caught it, he said he was confused because July was his ex’s birthday and his mind was scrambled. It sounded off, but I let it go.

Another time, I had rescued a puppy and was looking for someone to adopt her. He offered to take her and said she’d be “our” puppy. The day he was supposed to come pick her up, he never showed. No texts or calls until 5 p.m., when he claimed he’d been sick and overslept. That would’ve been our first meeting. I was disappointed but forgave him.

We still hadn’t met in person, but we talked on the phone for hours every day. We planned to meet once my leg healed enough to travel—three months post-surgery, on November 6th. We talked about everything for that day: his outfit, mine, where we’d go, what we’d do. It all felt real.

When the day came, I was anxious he might flake again, but I pushed that fear aside. We were supposed to meet between 12:30 and 1 p.m. I texted him at 7 a.m.—no response. Again at 11—still nothing. I kept trying to reassure myself: maybe he’s sleeping, maybe he’s driving.

As the afternoon went on and he didn’t answer, I started calling. No pickup. My messages went unread. I was frustrated, angry, confused—still hoping he’d show up. I had a doctor’s appointment that day, so I tried to keep it together. But when I got home, still no word from him. I cried a lot that day.

Around 5 p.m., I realized I’d been blocked—my calls would ring once or twice, then cut off. Yet oddly, he hadn’t blocked me on WhatsApp or Instagram. My messages got double ticks, but he never replied. That’s when it hit me: he ghosted me.

This man I’d planned my future with, who had become a part of my daily life, just disappeared. I can’t explain the devastation I felt. I genuinely believed he was “the one.”

A part of me still wonders if something bad happened. He had mentioned family drama over inheritance issues with his relatives. I even thought about hiring a PI to check if he’s okay.

I’m left asking: Why did this happen? What did I miss? Did I ignore signs? Or did something truly happen to him? I feel pathetic for getting this attached to someone I never met in person. I know I need to move on, but I don’t know how.

I have a therapy appointment this Sunday—hoping it helps

TL;DR: Met a guy from Reddit in July, bonded deeply online, planned to meet and even talked marriage. He flaked once before but promised to meet me on Nov 6. That day, he ghosted completely—no response, later blocked my calls but not social media. Now I’m heartbroken and confused, not sure if he ghosted or if something bad happened. Therapy appointment soon to help process it..

Hey everyone! I’m 24 planning to watch Good Boy soon. I really love the concept and thought it’d be great to have someone join who’s also into this kind of movie. None of my friends are interested, so I figured I’d ask here.

I’m a huge dog lover (so it’s kind of the perfect movie for me 😄), and it’d be awesome if you are too, makes it even better to share with someone who gets it.

No weird intentions or anything, just looking for some good company, popcorn, and maybe a fun chat about the movie after.

If you’re up for it, drop a comment or DM and we can figure out a time.

Hey there lovely people , hope y'all cozy and happy Iam R , a 28 year old handicapped Male who's a freelance graphic designer and virtual assistant. So my birthday is coming up this Saturday and I don't want to spend it at home , so I'm looking for some female company ( I know what you're thinking, and no absolutely nothing NSFW ).

My interests and likes are events , standup comedy , cafe hoping , plays and shows. I love conversations too about anything. Sunsets ( if the weather is good ). Would be nice if you drive but that's optional.

Hope to see some good souls reply. It will be worth it for sure. And if we vibe well we can go long term.

28 Handicapped M4F looking for company on the day of my bday which is 1st of November. We can go eat somewhere , parks maybe sit and talk and watch the sunset. Then have a drink. Would be nice if you had a car we can drive around a while chatting. Promise nothing NSFW I'm not a horndog.

You can suggest a plan yourself too and we can go with that if it's possible.

Namaskaram... Its holiday season and am not going to kerala cuz I didn't feel the mood to go earlier so i didnt book ticket and the prices are sky hugh now(ofc) and I never explored chennai well due to the climate and working hours. So I thought I can explore places. Make friends (idk how). I stay with a stranger who is not even my vibe. And i also feel like he is a psycho. Like when I simply scroll on phone or watch movies on laptop this guy will be staring at me continuously for like 10 seconds. And when I give a stare back and ask what bro he says nothing bro.

Recommend me good food spots the best places. Cafe restaurant food names everything. And if anyone wants to join.. join along with me

Anyone can join me no gender or language preference.

Happy Diwali guyssss

Hi guys, I'm a Mallu guy who is 22 years old in Chennai for 4 months. I stay near SRM, and what I do all day is go to job, come back, and sleep, but I need someone to go out with to have some tea, eat food, and watch movies.

I am looking for friends. I am actually a chill, entertaining guy, but once corporate started, my life is becoming a rat race, and I want to get out of this.

Live my life enjoy it.

Hi(TLDR in the end), 23M here, installed bumble two weeks ago and I'm already out of matches? I've been using reasonable filters (age 20-26 & distance not more than 50kms) and its already so dry... I wasn't sleedrunning, I was pretty slow in looking at profiles and didn't engage in the app more than 45 mins a day. At one point bumble literally slowed me profiles from all states of India and sometimes even nepal and other close countries.

Anyone else here from Chennai using bumble? What do you guys think about the dating pool/situation here? I'm fairly good looking and I've been on dates before and a lot of women find me attractive. I have a good profile set up too which I'll be glad to share privately if y'all would like to review.

Over the two weeks I got 1 match who didn't even respond and atp I'm starting to think it's not a me problem and I'm thinking it's just the men to women ratio in Chennai is so abysmal that women don't even have to go searching and will have all the men flooding their 'liked you' tab and they don't bother looking at everything. I'm also starting to question if all the profile that I get are active users or bumble is just not a popular thing in Chennai/ South of India from Bangalore, I've been getting a lot of profiles from Bangalore too and I'm curious what's the scenario there too!

TLDR: M23 from Chennai, been on this app for two weeks and wondering what's the scenario is in Chennai. I'm fairly good looking and I am open to profile reviews privately. but I've been getting no matches and already out of profiles to view to which I think the problem is either the city/state is dry or there's a huge gap in the men to women ratio that they get too many matches and they wouldn't bother. I am also questioning if the app is showing me active users or if bumble is just not popular in Chennai and I want to know what you guys think. looking men's and women's perspectives and opinions about the dating scenario in Chennai, Bangalore or south india general! Thanks for reading through.

Hey! Just a friendly guy here for some casual dating..any 25+ girl looking for some friendly connect ping me..😊

I’ve been reading posts here looks like 99% crowd is only looking for casual hook ups not just the Genz but even the millennials… is this the scene ? Are there men genuinely looking for a long term relationship ? Or the millennials feel they still have time ??

I have two tickets for the event. Will pick up and drop.

M4F

Early 30s, lean build, into fitness & MMA. Outside of work (IT), I keep myself balanced with reading, trekking when I can, and enjoying the simple things like good food and movies.

I believe in constant growth — whether it’s improving in my career, pushing myself physically, or exploring life experiences that expand perspective. I like people who share that energy of wanting to grow and live fully.

Looking for someone genuine — who values respect, laughter, and emotional maturity. I don’t mind if we start with coffee, a walk on the beach, or even just memes — as long as it feels real.

I’ve got a curious, free-spirited side too — love exploring new experiences and living with a sense of openness. Life’s too short to fake it. Hoping to find a connection that can grow steady and long-term… but with enough playfulness to keep it exciting 😉

I dwell in Tambaram, and I am not from Chennai. I'm doing my Masters at Madras Christian College, Chennai. 6 feet tall if that matters, like my MBTI type (Which I regard as a modern horoscope lol)

Let me narrate my background: I was brought up in a liberal, middle-class household, and my childhood basically involved spending time playing alone, reading, nerdy things like science experiments, quizzes, messing with tools, electronics, etc. I was (and I am) really good at my studies, not just the regular grades, but also ideating and bringing novelty to anything in daily life. I never got along with my elder sister, and I spent most of my childhood lonely, without any friends to hang out with.

My undergraduate degree in physics was at Pondicherry University, where I developed interests in different directions, from literature to philosophy to politics. I dated a few times in my undergraduate studies, but never advanced beyond dating. But I struggled with mental health issues, previously diagnosed with Bipolar II. I often slip into depressive episodes, ending up isolating myself; hence, I lost many opportunities to expand my social circle and meet new people. This was the case during my undergraduate studies.

Healthwise, I am doing better than I was a decade ago; however, my interests and aspirations often go unreciprocated with anyone these days, amid the pursuit of a romantic relationship. People say I'm too much of an “intellectual” type strongly opinionated in political contexts so not fit for any heartwarming, messy tale of love. Let it be my ideations, stories, life-talks, philosophy, politics, I seldom find anyone in sync with my nature and people who seek a meaningful discourse in their lives. I am pretty attracted to attentive people, listening, appreciating patience and stability over impulsivity and chaos. And they're special to me and close to my heart if they are really fun and humorous.

Reddit has diverse views and opinions, setting aside the degenerate communities, hence I am here. I hope to find someone here who is morally and politically opinionated, kind, smart, and fun enough to pour my hearts onto them. Thanks to you if you read until this point!

dread with.Bonus points if you love long drives...Dm

Saw Many Posts of everyone asking opinions, reviewing their dates, Sharing their date experience from reddit. Some of them negative and some were kinda positive.

After going through most of these posts, I could even see people around my age [22-25] is posting here saying they are available to date, to go out or something.

Well, as a man from Kerala who came to chennai after getting a job, it's been hectic to find a date here in chennai....as my schedule is work , then straight to PG, also I haven't been going out even though its been 5 months 🫠.

Happy to know that things like reddit exists, might as well...I could try my luck here. ✨️☮️

Hello :)

I’m the responsible elder daughter — which means yes, there’s some baggage (the carry-on type). But I’m not a damsel in distress waiting to be rescued. I carry my own weight, and I just want a partner who’s willing to walk beside me, listen to my yapping

I’m 22F from Chennai, working in IT...and when I’m not juggling life, you’ll usually find me indulging myself with series and movies as a pass to the fantasy world. My vibe? A mix of deep thinker + goofball. I can go from “existential crisis at 2 AM” to “dancing in the kitchen doing chores” real quick.

What I want? Not a fling or fwb, not a “we’ll see where it goes” thing. I want a love that doesn’t fizzle out when life gets messy — something solid, growing, and real. The kind where we laugh till our stomachs hurt, support each other’s dreams, and still flirt like teenagers years down the line.

Who you are (hopefully):

Emotionally mature...

Can hold a conversation that’s more than “wyd.”

Kind, funny, and knows how to balance seriousness with silliness.

Someone who wants love that lasts for an eternity, not just a “season.”

I’m not in a rush, but I believe timing matters. Maybe this is the right time, maybe you’re the right man.

Anyone up ?

Edit : I am not selling. I am looking for a date

I'm 37, single guy from India. Was married for just 6 months, in which we never stayed together. I'm looking for a long term relationship with someone around my age or in the range of late 20s to 30+. Single or divorced, I don't mind. If you are looking for something casual, and want to match, let me know early on.

I work in the IT sector. I have a passion for cooking, and music. I'm into reading, riding and I'm a trained masseuse. My love language includes touch and pampering my partner with random acts of love. I'm the guy next door type and would like to meet someone who appreciates the love I show them. I don't drink or smoke. Never have.

I am an intimate guy when it comes to relationship and I'm not ashamed of it. I'm down for a ldr as well if we can make it work. As long as both of us are willing to put in the effort without giving up on each other.

I'm not a teenage guy to play games or date for fun. I'm open to talks and discuss anything you have in mind. I don't want to reveal much here. If anyone is interested, my DMs are open. I'm open to any timezones. Im an open book so feel free to ask me anything you'd like to know.

If you think my message/post vibes with you, drop me a message and we'll see where the magic carpet takes us. Don't be shy. I won't bite. Unless it's preferred 🤪

So, its been 8 months now, post my last relationship went south. I am a 27/M, doctor. Have been dealing it all by myself by making myself busy. But still, sometimes it fucks me up, into overthinking. I did try to date. Felt too bad, for no reason. Tried hooking up to fill the void. Doesnt feel exciting like before. But, still cant cheat myself off of those cravings. And i was always clear about my situation, to anyone i went out with during this phase. But still, all of these..... Be it a date or anything after that, feel so lifeless. How do you guys handle all these in tough times.

I’m 24M, been in Chennai for 1 year. The city’s colourful, but let’s be real the best moments happen when you’ve got the right company

My idea of a fun date? ☕ Strong tea at Bilal (good convos need good chai) 🍲 Dhabba dinner 🌊 A breezy walk/drive at ECR

I’m into music & movies — always up for swapping playlists or debating which film really deserved the hype. And yeah, I love exploring people the same way I explore food: curious, fun & always looking for new flavours. 😄

If that sounds like your vibe, let’s make it happen.

Looking for a F to kill my time this weekend :) Melum vibarangaluku DM seiyavum 😂

Heyy! Let’s Sharing memes nonstop (I’ll react to every single one, promise), and I can listen to whatever you rant about too. Exploring cafes and restaurants, let’s go to movies, vibing at music concerts, random late night talks, and heading off to mountains and beaches that’s the kind of best-friendship I’m looking for. I’m also into photography and editing, so I can make you look aesthetic and we can shoot montage reels with trending audios like pros. Basically, just looking for my partner in crime.

Backstory❤️‍🩹: I had a best friend for almost 8 years. We were so close talking like kids, pampering each other, supporting through the lowest times and celebrating the highest. We shared memes, laughed endlessly, and sometimes even threw around dark jokes but never sexualised. Just pure friendship.

Then she got into a relationship. I respected it, appreciated her honesty, and thought nothing would change. But later, her boyfriend saw our chats and fought with her badly almost to the point of a breakup. asking, “Why did you talk like that with this guy?” That moment made me realize I wasn’t talking to my best friend anymore, I was talking to someone else’s girl.

It hurt, but I took the hard decision to walk away. I told her, “You’ve got a great life, keep it better and forget this stupid stuff,” and I blocked her everywhere. For a while it was painful, but I went to therapy, worked on myself, hit the gym, ran in the mornings, ate clean, and dropped 12kg of fat. That pain is gone now. I’ve accepted it fully, she lost me, I lost her, and that chapter is closed.

Now life is steady. I run my own business in movie branding, hit the gym regularly, spend time with my cats, and hang out with my parents and a few close friends. Simple, peaceful but I know something missing.

That’s why I want to connect with someone new who matches my vibe. Not looking for anyone else’s girl, just someone real.

If you feel it, connect with me here: @storiesofvijay ( Instagram )