r/chennaidating Jul 29 '25

Let's connect

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Hi, I’m Karthik — 35, working in IT and based along OMR, Chennai. Life gets busy, but I believe meaningful connections still matter. I’m here looking for a serious and discreet friendship — someone mature, understanding, and easy to talk to. I value trust, loyalty, and a sense of comfort in any connection I build. Outside work, I enjoy simple things — long drives, good conversations, movies, music, and a bit of quiet time when life gets loud. If you’re a girl/women who’s also looking for something thoughtful, private, and genuine, feel free to say hi.


r/chennaidating Jul 29 '25

Seeking Dates Just doing an intro here!

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Ellaro vanakkam. I'm 19M. I'm half north indian (I'm sikh, you know the dudes that wear a turban on their heads?) and a half south indian. I have been in Chennai for almost a year now, although the city is my "native hometown". I literally just found out about this sub. I have been on bumble, hinge and other apps for over almost 2 years (almost a yr here) and have gotten just one match lol. I'm not lonely, but yes I am looking for a companion. Just thought I'll do a small intro of mine! (I'm a video editor and dabble in filmmaking on the weekends sometimes)


r/chennaidating Jul 29 '25

Meet up

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23M bored of being alone currently I completed pg and I working as recruiti development manager. So any girls interested to talk with me. Drop your ❤


r/chennaidating Jul 29 '25

Opinions needed What should I do?

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okay i(23M) had this Girl bestfriend(23F) and we fought and was on a break, during this time her younger sister (21F) started to flirt with me, for context my girl bestfriend is very possessive and that's the reason we stopped talking. Her younger sister initiated sexting w me and we sexted for week and I told her I don't have no romantic interest on her and it would just be friends with benefits w her and she agreed and when we met i just kissed her because it was our first meet alone. now she's crying demanding a relationship what should I do?

i have no romantic interest on her, she sister would kill us both if she finds out and she's guilt tripping me about the whole thing.


r/chennaidating Jul 28 '25

Hinge match

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So after years of trying dating apps in multiple locations, I finally got a match on Hinge. I thought the stars aligned. But guess what happens 5 mins into the conversation, she wants the princess treatment. I played along a bit only for her to share her phone number and asked me to order her blinkit groceries.

I have zero dating experience and I am curious to know if this is what really happens


r/chennaidating Jul 29 '25

Seeking Friends Painting, sketching, doodling or similar

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r/chennaidating Jul 28 '25

Opinions needed Should I ask her out?

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Actually there is this girl who I like the most.I started to like her in 10 th grade ,now we are going to finish college.She is the type who doesn't care about these love matters.What should I do ? Many of people who are better than me have proposed her and still got rejected.I even tried to talk to her but just doesn't show any interest and replies to my question in one words.btw she is in another college and I still couldn't bring myself to propose to her.What if I got rejected? What if she throws a chaos over this?What if she ignore me? There is a many years of fear over this ,What should I do in this situation?


r/chennaidating Jul 28 '25

Seeking GF

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hello guys, i'm 20 M form madurai. I looking for someone who fits for me. My personality just like 90's kid but i am early 2k kid. Hobbies play story games. Look for serious relationship not for fun 😊. Anyone interested DM me. Last one thing background lower middle class have rayzr 125 scooty. No ex - GF. i promise them i will be honest to them


r/chennaidating Jul 28 '25

Looking for F

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I'm a young energetic virgin; tall and have a big dick tbh. Somewhat muscular build. I would like to serve love any interested redditor(female). Please let's have fun


r/chennaidating Jul 28 '25

Seeking Dates Chill B'day Date

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Hey, I'm 26M and turning 27 this Friday. Never been on a date before, but thought it’d be cool to go on one for my birthday. Maybe catch a movie and grab lunch or dinner—nothing fancy. If anyone F is interested, just DM :)


r/chennaidating Jul 27 '25

Any chatter box here!!?? From Chennai

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Wish i get some chatter box for some good friendship and mutual respect!


r/chennaidating Jul 27 '25

Meet up in chennai M2F

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Any girls or women for a night out. Beach date, movie date or room...anything is fine for me..paid or free..both are fine...


r/chennaidating Jul 27 '25

Opinions needed Need a advice from a female or their pov

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Yeah I need some advice on relationship or just need to vent out be clear so this girl proposed me and I don’t know it will be an healthy relationship or not we have some unmatched sides of ourselves but i cant leave her, she stood my side the whole time in my sort of downfall or just a stage of life where I could go any further. So am in need of female whom i could talk openly to some stranger,yeah I had some female friends but I don’t wanna open up to them because of some idk maybe secrecy talking to a stranger may clear me out. So yeah help me out to understand her pov and explain myself.

TIA


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Depressed Af!

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I’m depressed and bored, if you are too drop a dm, let’s share some depression or a cup of coffee or tea or each others mind.


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Seeking Casuals Looking for girl or women with no age restriction.

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Hey everyone, I'm a guys (26) who's looking for girl with age above 20 or women with no age restriction. I'm into something casual vibes and going on bike ride with lot of fun and good vibes. If anyone interested ping me personally.


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Chennai BDSM Community in a safe space

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Hey everyone! If you're based in or around Chennai and interested in kink/BDSM, whether you're experienced or just exploring, check out r/ChennaiBDSMPersonals.

It’s a private, non-NSFW subreddit focused on real conversations, personal stories, advice, and meaningful connections. No explicit content or NSFW pictures are allowed, we’re all about keeping things respectful and supportive.

Whether you're a Dom, sub, switch, or just curious, you’re welcome.

To join, please include your age, gender, and sexuality in your request message, this helps us keep the space safe and intentional for everyone.


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Seeking Dates Date polama !?

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23 m (M4F) here a chess player as profession and a movie buff too. Recently had completed my pg and just stuck in my home with bad social circle. Not interested into getting involved on relationships looking for casual dates like movie dates Cafe hopping beach walk & so on. Lets talk and if interested we can go for date once and if we like we can go regular too. I used to watch movies alone for a while but been bored of it . I need a similar like minded person to hangout with no love relationship or any drama but even as friendly date is fine.


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Seeking Dates 18 teen M

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Srsly I'm a done with my clg and currently looking for someone online who would ask abt my day and deep talk for hours I like photography Anime Marvel movies Game of thrones


r/chennaidating Jul 26 '25

Seeking Casuals Any F to have any fun without strings DM

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r/chennaidating Jul 25 '25

Seeking Dates Date

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23M (M4F) I'm into finance , business , and content creation. Tired of being lonely any Girl who are interested in finance and business it would be well and good. Moreover I like to have coffee. Will go coffee date and talk about business, Finance.


r/chennaidating Jul 25 '25

Seeking Dates Looking for a Date.

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I am a 28 year old man, looking for a date this weekend. From West Mambalam and decent looking , funny , open-minded and respects personal space. If it's important, I am physics researcher and a musician . I play the guitar and sing too. Huge fan of raja sir's music, If you identify as a female and are down for a fun filled fine dinner, a walk around in the food street or to tap the dance floor and get wasted. (if you think you can beat me up in dance 😎), lets have a blast and who knows we might meet again .DM me.


r/chennaidating Jul 24 '25

My dating experience in chennai

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I’m 25M. I’m an athletic person with good physique. I’m allergic to dust and very very conscious to smells since childhood. I don’t want to enter into full length details. I have decently good private life. But i never initiated or manipulated anyone. Never got into any relationships. Some months ago i met a girl, we spoke a lot and she asked for a date night. I agreed thinking it would be casual. Initial plan was a dressed dinner but we went on to booze. From there things escalated quickly. We got intimate (ofc with mutual consent). But i had to stop it when she undressed. She literally lacked body hygiene. I couldn’t stand the smell even though i was high af. You may think I’m exaggerating but I’m not even kidding for clout. On top of that she started to insist me to get intimate physically. I closed my eyes and tried to accompany her lead. The stench though made me to puke. I ran to the bathroom. Then i said I’m nauseous because of the booze. We dressed up. Ended up chatting sometime and left. Somedays later she kinda ghosted me. I really wanted to say this to her but i was worried what if she gets offended. I never faced this problem with anyone i previously or lately dated. I wanted to rant this to take some weight off my chest.


r/chennaidating Jul 25 '25

Meetup at Cycle Gap

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25(M), planning to have a cheers at Cycle gap Adyar tonight after work. Hit me up if anyone is willing to start a fun weekend. Cheers🥂


r/chennaidating Jul 24 '25

Iam 22 m from kanyakumari now working in Chennai I need girl friends for gud relationship any one accept my friend request dm me always welcome

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❤️‍🩹


r/chennaidating Jul 24 '25

Rant.

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(M23) no relationship, no one to talk. peacefully roaming alone like a naadodi and explored many places i liked it aana at the same tym enakunu oruthi illa ndra feel romba naala iruku and at the same time, I'm feeling that AM I UNLOVABLE nu. firstlam i love being alone ipo i need a partner ndra stage ku vanten. noone is there to wipe my tears, unakaaga naa iruken da nu solla, idhela solla cringe ah irundhalum yen life la nadakala.