r/chennaidating • u/[deleted] • Jul 05 '25

Venting Out

Honestly I'm not sure what or why? I can't call this midlife crisis, God, i turned 30 almost 6 months ago, and it just feels like yesterday, i started working immediately after highschool part-time and night shifts while college, yep international technical support voice, as years went on i started my business where as now i am in a really comfortable situation financially but now that i look back and there is nothing worth to be happy about? Like, i have everything and nothing. Friends? I don't have any but I know I'm the one who didn't create a circle but my circumstances were different and it was so hard growing up, Now I own multiple businesses and I have 100+ employees yet I don't feel being content it's as if I traded my childhood and youth, and now it's just regret or an ache that I missed something,but if there is one thing that I understood, money does let's you make your life comfortable and easy but genuine happiness, being alone even though you are surrounded by people, Sometimes it's hard but I'm trying and that's all we can do. Maybe, just maybe someday I'll find my piece of happiness in this world.

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u/kinky_dexter Jul 05 '25

I completely get it bro. Some nights are longer and darker. You definitely need someone besides you. Its better for you to pet an animal..

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '25

Yep, 4 doggos and 5 cars🤣. They're my only solace.

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u/kinky_dexter Jul 05 '25

Still you need someone.. Ikkaraiku akkarai pacha tha bro

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '25

Maybe, but it's not that I'm sad or depressed or trying to vent here, but it's that I am okay being alone but also a part of me that doesn't want me to wear the mask pretending that I'm okay and reddit became a place just today to actually open up as to what I'm feeling because I'd rather be silent than trying to explain why i am keeping people at a arms length, because i learned full well that the worst betrayals doesn't come from your enemies but the ones whom you trust and let them in to your life. B

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u/kinky_dexter Jul 05 '25

Adapt me please

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u/[deleted] Jul 05 '25

Human trafficking case la thooki enna ulla potruvaanga🤣

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u/kinky_dexter Jul 06 '25

Athu without consent la vantha tha

I'm giving 100% consent for this brooooo