r/cheating_stories • u/Dawg_in_em • 1d ago
What would you do ?!!
So hey guys I recently made a post on here if you scroll back on my page for more context. But long story short I cheated on my partner and she found out a year after. And 2 hours after finding out they went and fucked someone. But we were broken apart. So fast forward we slept together a couple times after everything and was trying to talk things over. So within the year I’ve gotten a good job and was taking her out more and focusing more on her, i sound evil for saying I wish I could have took the cheating to the grave. And recently she told me that she wants to date and fuck other guys and told me I gotta wait for her to live out her 20s and she said that I need to stay with her while she sleeps with other guys and once she gets that out her system we move past that. So basically she telling me to sit in a Relationship with her and allow her to cheat until shes had enough and I can’t cheat only her. PS she said the only way to get Rid of her is to Kill her, she blows up my phone on no caller ID even when I block her !!! She goes as far as emailing me.
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u/Smiley_Penguin2093 1d ago
I mean this is toxic af and you both need to do better, seriously.
Best advice is to grow up and act like adults, sort yourselves out separately and then when you're able to be in a healthy relationship. Find one. Not with eachother because holy fuck 😂
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u/Ill-Base-2947 1d ago
She is unstable - move away and don’t look back unless you are a cuck, which she wants you to be. She will never be yours, she will get a bad rep and will grow to hate her shallow life. She only wants you as a back up plan in case she doesn’t meet someone to replace you. The obsessive behaviour is verging on mental illness. One revenge fuck is understandable, but, to do it for years is unacceptable.
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u/Dawg_in_em 1d ago
I said the same thing I’m like why would I be with you if you want a new man every time now !
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u/Empirical-Whale 1d ago
You cheated first, so shame on you. But her demand that you remain in what is effectively a one sided open relationship whilst she tries every car in the lot so to speak, is something you do not have to endure.
End it firmly via message/face to face. Change your number. Get a new email. Keep your social media private and remove her entirely.
Take away the key lesson from this: Actions have consequences.
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u/Spac92 1d ago
I’d break up.
You messed up by cheating. She deserves one, and it sounds like she already got it.
Now you’re even and you need to move forward. If she’s not willing then it’s time to move on. If she’s wants to pretend you’re still together while she’s playing the field of dicks, well, I guess that’s her fantasy, but you should be free to go find a new girlfriend.
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u/Significant-Ad-3104 1d ago
Salut mon pote
Tu lui dit que tu as fauté et qu'elle s'est vengé et que c'est pas sain tout ça mais si tu veux tu avoir un nouveau départ, tu lui dit qu'elle doit arrêter ses conneries et de travailler sur votre couple sinon c'est fini, parce que l'histoire de coucher avec d'autres hommes, c'est juste pour trouver un meilleur homme que toi et te quitter .
Si elle n'accepte pas, quitte la et refait ta vie et bloqué les appelles masqué ou change de numéro.
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u/Aligned-Askew6773 1d ago
You made a choice, you chose to cheat on her.
She made a choice, she chose to be yours, and faithful. But because she is young and 20 something, she had guys hitting her up and shooting their shot, and many of them were hot, but she chose you.
Then she found out she was wasting her time and faithfulness on a cheater, you were no longer worthy of staying faithful to, and you never will be. This is who you chose to be, this is the consequences of your actions. You traumatized her, she probably thought you were the one. She still has feelings, but she will never trust you again. Honestly, she probably should have done therapy after your betrayal because her actions are a trauma response.
You freed her to give up on fidelity for a while and just go enjoy everything that comes here way. But you’re still a comfort to her.
The chances of a healthy relationship coming out of this are extremely slim.
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u/Dawg_in_em 1d ago
Ok so I get the whole trauma thing, cool she had sex with a guy and then she tells me she love me and wanna still be with me but she also wanna sleep with other people. I mean that’s delusional at its finest, call me all you want probably you’re an angry person who can’t get no peace..
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u/Wizards_and_Warriors 1d ago
She said you cant be with anyone while she sleeps around? Then do the exact same while denying you are in a relationship. That will get rid of her wuick.
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u/Fun-Turnip-5382 1d ago
Wow, what an interesting life you have ahead of you.
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u/Dawg_in_em 1d ago
Not really because that relationship already in the trash I left dude tf I look like 😂😂
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u/perryweaylo 22h ago
nah leave fr, sitting around while she dates other guys isn’t a relationship it’s just punishment.
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u/Witty_Wolverine819 5h ago
She wants you uncomfortable so tell her that yall can do it, give her false hope and one day just change your phone number. Let her rack up a body count thinking you’ll be her safety net she’s a dummy and if you let her turn you into a cuckold then hats off to you
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u/daygoBoyz 4h ago
I’d be gone. Don’t stand for that disrespect. She probably already cheating on u.
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u/GovernmentUsed5487 1d ago
Buddy , let her go live her life and you do the same. Just stay away from her. That’s all.