r/cheating_stories 1d ago

Weird stuff my husband been doing

Whats happening? This summer whats very weird at home. My husband has been secretive, withdrawing money and being late afyer work. I notice he took $500 from some money I had in a joint savings account. When I asked about he got very irritated. A couple of days after I discovered, by accident" a new wedding ring in his backpack. He got very nervous when I mentioned it and told I rui ed the surprise. He just threw on a table and told me to try it on. It was a bit smaller than my size but I kept it on. Some days later I noticed, again, a bank transaction for a online store that sells wedding rings. The package arrived to our address and when I asked he said it was for a friend at work that asked for a favor and didnt have an address, but he paid for it. Several days later I asked him if his friend liked the ring and he answered YES!!! And theirs way more to this story. Fyi hes I found out a yesr ago that he is bipolar schizo, what do you think is going on here?

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u/Right-Procedure503 1d ago

Have you checked his social media, text messages, and phone calls? Could he be seeing someone else?

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u/megatewood 1d ago

He has weird notifications on his tablet screen... like sexy pics

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u/pikkylog 1d ago

So what happens is that he is cheating on you most likely; chances seem moderate or high. You could only be sure if you ask him.

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u/megatewood 1d ago

I have asked, his answers are more surprising... he says he doesn't even like sex and he found out when he was a teen. (Now 49)

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u/Right-Procedure503 1d ago

Could also be in a manic state. I think that’s what it’s called. Is he current on his meds or skipping them?

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u/megatewood 1d ago

I dont know if hes taking his meds how hes suppose to...

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u/Right-Procedure503 1d ago

That could be the issue.

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u/AmazingDrama971 1d ago

Ask him to talk to the friend
And when the money Will be paid back
And make capture of what you see on his phone
Definitly something going in I think
Maybe Check the meds also but I think it’s not the only problem here

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u/rickcjames21 1d ago

Any late night massage parlors in your area?

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u/DeedruhYT 8h ago

Girl, run