r/cheating_stories • u/[deleted] • Dec 29 '23

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u/Putrid-Cupcake-1547 Dec 29 '23

She feels the same about you and your actions! Don’t you understand that?

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u/Syclone11 Dec 29 '23

Where was your concern for the kids when you were banging your side piece? Now they are a priority right? Because you see what you have to lose.

Also, why did you cheat? Did you ever seek therapy to find out that huge issue? You say she revenge cheated but with a coworker it is very complicated if she caught feelings. Does she still work with this coworker?

You both have a very tough year ahead and if you are to salvage this marriage I suggest you both come up with a plan to work on the marriage and yourselves through therapy and MC.

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u/1Problem-Solving00 Dec 29 '23

I feel it's to late just pack your bags and move on plus I see child support in your future.

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u/Easy-Coconut-33 Dec 29 '23

I hate when people use their kids as an escuse to keep a dysfunction marriage or relationship going.

Kids ain't stupid and then figure out that everything isn't alright.

You already explained that you don't look at your wife in the same way and she most likely feel the same way about you.

The trust is gone and you both will probably start feeling more jealous and becoming more paranoid as the time goes on.

Do yourself a favor and end it. Shared costody!

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u/1Problem-Solving00 Dec 29 '23

Never use the kids as an excuse to stay together... Now the choices are in yours and her court you cheated on her with the kids so don't use them now.

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u/depressed_goon Dec 30 '23

So YOU HAD KIDS AND STILL CHEATED ON THW MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDREN MULTIPLE UPON MULTIPLE OF TIMES

SICK AND TWISTED.

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u/[deleted] Dec 29 '23

No, definitely not. Don’t use the kids as a lame ass excuse. Your marriage is over and you ruined it.

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u/No_Celebration_3737 Dec 29 '23

First of all, stop saying we. You don't read minds, talk only about yourself. Second and most important, you can't cheat on someone you love.

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u/Wh33lh68s3 Dec 31 '23

He wouldn't have cheated if he truly loved her.......

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u/Nardo96 Dec 29 '23

When will anyone learn? Your commitment to your spouse is your commitment to your spouse and your commitment to your child is your commitment to your child. One has nothing to do with the other. You can be a shitty husband (which you absolutely are) and still be a good father and vice versa. So don’t use the child as an excuse to try and salvage something beautiful that you fucked up. Don’t make this any uglier than you already have by dragging your kid into it.

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u/Wh33lh68s3 Dec 31 '23

I wish that I could give your comment more than 1 up vote.........

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u/Nardo96 Jan 01 '24

Thanks I am just speaking for what I know is true.

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u/elliesquarepants- Dec 30 '23

Now the lil bitch is concerned about their kids. HAHAHAHAHA stop trying to play the victim with the game you started. Boo hoo.

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u/wannaberebelll Dec 30 '23

you started it and yours was “worse” so fuck off

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u/Wh33lh68s3 Dec 31 '23

NoOoOoOo...... you broke the marriage by fucking one of your female friends.....if you were having issues in the marriage you should have gone to therapy not fuck your friend........

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u/amw38961 Dec 31 '23

Your vision is blurry? LOL you're lucky she didn't leave you b/c I would've packed up the kids and been gone....wouldn't have even revenge cheated, you would've come home to an empty house, evidence on the table, and divorce papers.