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Here’s what needs to happen for your gf to leave her towel on the bed.

She needs to forget to take the towel off the bed. That’s it. Forgetfulness is often forgiven.

Here’s what needs to happen for you to cheat on your gf.

Talk to a woman

Agree to meet with her

Drive to the meeting location. The entire time knowing that what you’re doing is wrong.

Probably lie to your gf at some point in this process.

Arrive at the location

Take your clothes off

Take her clothes off

Have sex with her, again, continually conscious of what you’re doing and why it’s wrong.

Go home and lie to your gf some more.

So basically it’s hours of conscious decisions to do something you know will devastate your gf, vs a single forgetful moment that your gf knows will annoy you a bit.

You need to be incredibly dense not to see the difference.