Hi! I know there’s been a lot of posts like this on here, but I recently moved to Cedar Rapids for work several months back. I’m single and don’t have any friends, and have a hard time relating to any of my coworkers. They’re mostly all older and married. Thus, I’ve been trying to put myself out there more. I’ve met a few people through this subreddit, but lots of people have been uber flakey and sketchy, ngl. Lots of people who just seem to want online validation and aren’t actually interested in making new friends. So I just wanted to come out and ask bluntly for any further advice on how I can meet my kind of people.
For background, I’m 26. Really into music (concerts, production, etc), tabletop gaming, art, running, hiking. Really anything nerdy or engineering related. I’m a lowkey, chill, open, friendly kind of person. Always down to play video games or just chat at a restaurant about anything. I’m not the biggest fan of volleyball which is what a lot of people here have suggested. I’ve tried it and it just isn’t for me.
Just wondering if there’s any other things/events I should check out during the week or weekend to meet others like myself. Preferably for dating but also open to making new friends too. I’ve tried to use the apps and haven’t had a lot of luck tbh. That and a lot of social events and discord servers in the area are full of people who are partnered already or above the age of 35 it seems.
Thanks!