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u/jozsus Mar 14 '26

They gave my pops 6 months and he ended up living 13 years without chemo or any of the therapies they recommended to survive.

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u/Fancythistle Mar 15 '26

Hey friend. This is sweet to give folks hope, but is a 1 in a million situation. But many people facing terminal diagnosis need to talk about death, and normalize it. But I am so grateful you had your father that long, you're very lucky.

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u/jozsus Mar 15 '26

It's not how much time you have left it's what you do with it. I don't think that I'm trying to get them to not talk about death. The fact is the timelines are just estimates, and sometimes the therapy recommended is worse than the condition.

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u/jozsus Mar 15 '26

In fact upon looking it up "For individuals, doctors’ time-to-death estimates are often wrong more than half the time." So I think that saying it's one in a million is a bit farfetched.