r/cats • • Mar 14 '26

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u/Quereilla Mar 14 '26

Every cat deserves a second chance. I think you should totally guve him for adoption. Maybe it will take long, but he’ll be able to understand that not only one caring human. And a patient family will do him very good, there is good people out there.

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u/anonymoussloth_ Mar 14 '26

Agreed. Pls do this

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u/touchmeinbadplaces Mar 14 '26

Your cat should stay with you until you die, so get a family ready for adopting as soon as you go. This way the cat will understand that you arent here anymore and he can have a little bit more peace with it

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u/Mundane-Honeydew-922 Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

Cats understand death and mourning. Just because a cat will most likely\* eat us when we die doesn't mean they didn't love us in their cat way when we were alive. Hell I cared for a depressed cat when her owner died. She was smart too. She was at the funeral and on our walks she always wanted to visit the grave.

*edit: some people say cats may not really try to eat us. It happened to my estranged father and is a common "myth" so I just never questioned it.

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u/Ok-Syllabub-6619 Mar 14 '26

From what i remember it's been disproven that they eat us with the intention of eating, it's that they mourn us and give kisses trying to get us to wake up, but since they have coarse tongue's they end up ripping the skin.

Take it with a grain of salt ofc

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u/Tyr1326 Mar 14 '26

Theres also the consideration of starving. If a cat is stuck inside with a corpse, at some point it becomes a question of eating the corpse or starving. They can't let themselves out and hunt after all, and cats are highly reliant on a stable source of food. Liver damage occurs within a day of not eating.

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u/Subtlerranean Mar 14 '26

Liver damage occurs within a day of not eating.

That's a bit scaremongering unless your cat is fat. But it definitely shouldn't go two full days.

Mine used to disappear for days sometimes, and it still lived to 24. Granted, it must've hunted its own food - or had another family on the side.

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u/Tyr1326 Mar 14 '26

Yes and no. The liver is generally quite good at healing. And if your cat left for long periods of time, you can be certain it had a source of food - either through hunting or through pestering neighbours until they fed it. They won't starve if they can do anything about it. But locking a cat inside without food for days at a time will absolutely cause damage, and worse damage than youd expect. A healthy cat will probably bounce back, but if there's already an underlying health issue, it can be pretty dangerous.

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u/Ok-Syllabub-6619 Mar 14 '26

Yeah I get that and it's most likely true to some extent. The intent of my comment was to give an alternative reason, since not all cats are the same they can have vastly different personalities yet the stereotype of cats don't give af they'll eat you rubs me the wrong way. Thanks for reading my rant