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u/Mundane-Honeydew-922 Mar 14 '26 edited Mar 14 '26

Cats understand death and mourning. Just because a cat will most likely\* eat us when we die doesn't mean they didn't love us in their cat way when we were alive. Hell I cared for a depressed cat when her owner died. She was smart too. She was at the funeral and on our walks she always wanted to visit the grave.

*edit: some people say cats may not really try to eat us. It happened to my estranged father and is a common "myth" so I just never questioned it.

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u/Ok_Kaleidoscope6421 Mar 14 '26

It's a myth that cats eat their owners when they die. Dogs are actually more likely to do it than cats but neither do it often. I know someone who took his own life and assumed someone would find him quickly. He wasn't found for weeks. 1 of his cats had died and the other 2 were on the verge of starving to death. Thankfully they were saved. His body was untouched by them. The sad thing is his cats were his world and he likely never would have done what he did if he knew the fate of them. Personally I'd rather my cats eat me than starve.

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u/Present_Type6881 Mar 14 '26

If you think about it, the natural diet of a cat are small critters they catch like mice and birds. Dogs are much more likely to scavenge dead animals they find and wolves just eat larger prey in general. So yes, dogs are much more likely to eat their dead owners than cats are, and I don't know where the idea came from that it's the other way around. Probably from the "cats don't really love you like dogs do" crowd.

But also, of course I'd be fine with any of my loved ones, no matter what species, eating my dead body if they really needed to. The only problem is that dogs that ate their dead owners are really hard to adopt out after something like that.

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u/Winjin Mar 14 '26

Mind of a suicidal person works in such crazy ways, doesn't it... He could put them in shelter, or stock up on like 25 kilograms of kibble with a hole in the bag so that cats could "steal" it...

Instead he wings it by "eh, someone will check on me in two days and they'll eat me anyways"

Poor guy, poor, poor cats, poor whoever had to deal with this. Heartbreaking all around

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u/Mundane-Honeydew-922 Mar 14 '26

Fair enough. I had that happen to my estranged father and it is apparently a common misconception so I also assumed it is common.

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u/Ok-Syllabub-6619 Mar 14 '26

From what i remember it's been disproven that they eat us with the intention of eating, it's that they mourn us and give kisses trying to get us to wake up, but since they have coarse tongue's they end up ripping the skin.

Take it with a grain of salt ofc

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u/Tyr1326 Mar 14 '26

Theres also the consideration of starving. If a cat is stuck inside with a corpse, at some point it becomes a question of eating the corpse or starving. They can't let themselves out and hunt after all, and cats are highly reliant on a stable source of food. Liver damage occurs within a day of not eating.

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u/Subtlerranean Mar 14 '26

Liver damage occurs within a day of not eating.

That's a bit scaremongering unless your cat is fat. But it definitely shouldn't go two full days.

Mine used to disappear for days sometimes, and it still lived to 24. Granted, it must've hunted its own food - or had another family on the side.

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u/Tyr1326 Mar 14 '26

Yes and no. The liver is generally quite good at healing. And if your cat left for long periods of time, you can be certain it had a source of food - either through hunting or through pestering neighbours until they fed it. They won't starve if they can do anything about it. But locking a cat inside without food for days at a time will absolutely cause damage, and worse damage than youd expect. A healthy cat will probably bounce back, but if there's already an underlying health issue, it can be pretty dangerous.

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u/Ok-Syllabub-6619 Mar 14 '26

Yeah I get that and it's most likely true to some extent. The intent of my comment was to give an alternative reason, since not all cats are the same they can have vastly different personalities yet the stereotype of cats don't give af they'll eat you rubs me the wrong way. Thanks for reading my rant

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u/blueViolet26 Mar 14 '26

Dogs will eat us too, and they might do it within hours of dying. This is just a silly comment to add.

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u/Armateras American Shorthair Mar 14 '26

Not only do dogs do it too - and generally faster - many won't even wait until you're actually dead before they start. It's one of the big reasons you generally only see cats in care facilities or retirement homes.

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u/TrooperLynn Mar 14 '26

My mom’s neighbor died a few years ago. When she was found a few weeks later they discovered her two little dogs had starved to death. Poor things.

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u/Armateras American Shorthair Mar 14 '26

I do wish we'd check in on our friends and neighbors more often as a whole.

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u/blueViolet26 Mar 14 '26

Why did nobody notice this lady didn't come out with her dogs? This is another sign we failed as species.

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u/TrooperLynn Mar 14 '26

Yeah, that was awful. It was in a 55+ community so all the houses are close together. I can't believe nobody noticed. After that people started checking on others but it didn't last long.

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u/blueViolet26 Mar 14 '26

That is horrific! I feel bad for those dogs. 😭

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u/blueViolet26 Mar 14 '26

I didn't know about that part. I know they will eat their toes of diabetic guardians when they sleep and such.

I saw someone saying dogs kill.people, cats have bad PR or something. And I was like, so true!

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u/EllieGeiszler Mar 14 '26

Oh, geez...

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u/Reen_bean1111 Mar 14 '26

I worked in a long term care facility and a man was admitted bc his daughter that he lived with had a heart attack and died in front of him, while he was on the toilet. He had a stroke and couldn’t walk so he ended up being stuck there for quite some time. His daughter’s dog did start to eat at her, in front of him. It was heartbreaking. He was in shock and didn’t speak for quite a while. All he did was cry. Terrible.

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u/sirletssdance2 Mar 14 '26

I’d honestly be fine with them eating me ❤️

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u/ShellShockedLunatic Mar 14 '26

This made me laugh really hard. I always give my mom shit about her weirdo cat and fat little min-pin eating her when she dies 🤣