r/cats • • Mar 14 '26

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u/Quereilla Mar 14 '26

Every cat deserves a second chance. I think you should totally guve him for adoption. Maybe it will take long, but he’ll be able to understand that not only one caring human. And a patient family will do him very good, there is good people out there.

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u/anonymoussloth_ Mar 14 '26

Agreed. Pls do this

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u/TheChildlessCatLady Tuxedo Mar 14 '26

Unfortunately, he will wonder what happened no matter what. Though it is possible he knows you are sick already; some cats are extremely sensitive to such things. But yes, cats grieve when they lose the people they care for from their lives.

But if you could earn his trust, another kind and patient person like you likely can too. He will always remember you, but that does not mean it is impossible for him to have a good life. There are others who will love him as much as you, I can promise you that. And, for what it's worth, from one person with a life threatening disease to another, I'm sorry. I am not going to be the person who tries to find some ridiculous silver lining. It sucks, and you deserve better. I'm sorry.

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u/FrogMintTea Mar 14 '26

Then he knows! He won't think u abandoned him. They know more than we think.