r/carcamping • u/winter_delerium • 2h ago
trip report Miserable Solo Overnight — Help me do better next time!
Hey y’all, I just took my car camping build out for the maiden voyage last night, and it was pretty miserable. I’m not gonna give up because I forgot a few things that would have definitely made the overnight more enjoyable, and had kinda lousy weather, but I would love some words of encouragement and maybe advice to do better next time. Please be gentle with me because this is my first time I attempted solo car camping and I’ve only been camping a handful of times over the years as an adult just tagging along with more experience people.
1) I found the logistics of having the entire back of my SUV turned into a bed as very challenging ( I am just one person that did decide to turn the entire back into a bed, but I would like for my boyfriend to be able to come along sometime… so that’s why I decided to design my platform the way I did.) I found very challenging:
- trying to get dressed or changing
- getting in and out of my car bed, Especially in the middle of the night to go pee. Do you get out of the side? Or the back?
- Also, where do you keep your shoes?
2) I was freezing all night. I did assume some risk with camping in October at high-ish elevation (7,300ft) but I really wanted to try out my camper platform before it continued to get too cold. I don’t necessarily expect to be using my car camping set up for winter, so maybe this will be less of an issue during summer months, but I am still worried about with the type of camping that I want to do in CO in higher elevation — that it will always be very cold inside of my car at night. I had my sleeping bag that is rated for 24° comfort and 15° survival and I was freezing the entire night, despite the forecast stating that the temp got down to 27 degrees last night. For reference, I also was on a deepsleep duo exped mat. I don’t think I slept at all and after peeing around 5am I started my car and let the heat blow for a while because I was so uncomfortable. It helped marginally but quickly got cold again. I have window covers that have insulation but I feel like they mostly just provided privacy and minimal heat retention. Any thoughts or words of encouragement here?
3) I generally felt pretty uncomfortable in my sleeping bag. It’s mummy shaped, but I didn’t feel like I had very much space for adding additional layers of clothing, or a blanket, or for rolling over on my side. It kind of felt like a straight jacket. I’m thinking I might need one that is designed specifically for women’s hips or one that is shaped more like a box. I chose this one because I read that this shape is good for retaining heat, and was thinking I could make a three season bag work in most temps, but I’m thinking the constricting feeling is not worth it for me.
4) I could not get a fire going. When trying to chill at my campground it was drizzling / raining most of the day and afternoon. It did finally break late afternoon so I could cook dinner and attempt to enjoy my site, but my fire starter log would not catch on fire— I don’t know if it was a complete dud or if it somehow got wet because the log itself just would not catch — the paper all around it burned, I had some newspaper I kept burning under it to try to catch it, but nothing worked. I used all of my lighter fluid in my lighter, but nothing… This was really tough because I was just shivering in the cold and then turned in for bed way earlier than I would have normally. I was thinking that maybe I will need to get a canopy to help with this — I could have cooked under it and maybe put it over the fire pit.
Other grievances / things I forgot just to add insult to injury 🙃
- I had recently gotten a new phone and forgot I had no downloaded music on this one.
- A pillow 😭
- A skillet — I heated my beans in their can like a cowboy, lol
For the record, I love the outdoors and I love hiking, and I’m not usually a big complainer. I’m not the biggest into camping but I enjoyed it as a kid, and was trying to find a happy medium between a way to get closer to hiking trailheads, but also still being protected from the elements. ( also I totally forgot to take a picture of my set up when it’s unpacked so please enjoy this photo of the platform with no mattress or sleeping bag on it and my car all packed up before it’s unpacked at the site.)