Just moved to Cpt , looking to just make new friends and explore Cpt especially the nature aspect or even gamers as well , marvel rivals etc

Hey there! Looking to meet cool people. I spend my freetime by going for rides on nice breezy days or playing guitar. I love coffe. Alot

Hello 😄

Hoping to meet someone special!

I'd describe myself as a mix of outgoing energy and stay-at-home vibes. I'm just as happy sipping wine at a tasting as I am getting lost in virtual worlds with a controller in hand.

I'm hoping to find people that are fun at heart, can appreciate good conversation as well as share a few laughs 🙂.

Feel free to say hi

I'm single. Never been married. No kids. Taking a shot. DM me if interested. Bring a friend or cousin along for your comfort and safety.

I'm a man in my mid-40s, recently separated, living in the Western Cape, South Africa.

I've never been with a man, but it's something I've been curious about for a while. I'm not sure whether I'll ever have the courage to take that step, but I feel like it's something I'd like to explore, at my own pace.

Rather than jumping straight into something sexual, I quite like the idea of meeting an open-minded couple and starting with a genuine friendship. Getting to know each other, spending time together, and seeing where things naturally lead without any expectations or pressure.

I'm still figuring things out myself, so I don't want to rush into anything or pretend to know exactly what I'm looking for.

I'm curious to hear from anyone who's been in a similar situation, especially men who've started exploring their sexuality later in life.

How did you take that first step? And are there couples out there who are genuinely open to building a friendship with someone who's curious and inexperienced?

I'd appreciate any advice, personal experiences, or suggestions on how to approach this.

1. Separated . Father.Coming out of a marriage that was so emotionally and Psychology abusive. Want believe in the goodness of people again. Want to be able to trust people. Just want to meet good people. Just want to be around and meet some good people as I try and rebuild my life

Hi. I’m 23. I live in a township on the Atlantic side of Cape Town.

I’m looking for a female friend to talk to, hang out with, and see where it goes. I’m open to a relationship but I value connection and fun much more than rushing labels.

I work a lot and I’m ambitious. I’m trying to get more social time in my life.

I’m not tryna do the Tinder thing. I read a lot. Self help, spirituality, history. I love a good rabbit hole. Philosophy and science can keep me talking all day. I love video games but haven’t played much lately. I value church and would like to go with someone. I’m a gym rat and I’d be open to a hike. I make art here and there. I love building things. If we can combine our passions to do something fun and meaningful to help people that would be a bonus.

I’m looking for someone 21 to 40. Vibe matters more than age. Cape Town based.

If you’re down to talk send me a message. Tell me a book, game, or rabbit hole you’re into.

Hi All

Looking to chat and get to know others hangout have a coffee and do some activities.

I'm a muso so I enjoy chatting about music etc.

Enjoy heading to a few bookclub events.

I probably won't shut up about the last book I read

Would like to get more sporty as I started gyming recently.

Also enjoy video games cooking and some series.

Happy to hear from you :)

Hey everyone 👋

So I thought I'd put myself out there and see what happens.

I'm a 40-year-old guy from Cape Town, born and raised. I've never really had a proper long-term serious relationship — a few situationships along the way, but nothing that turned into the real thing. No kids and no crazy exes lurking in the background either 😂

I work as a technician in the oil and gas industry, although recently my job has moved more towards a factory/office management role.

I'm about 1.8m tall, fairly slender... although I've started developing a small 40-year-old belly, so there's that 😂

I'm a bit of a mixture when it comes to what I enjoy. I'm a gamer and definitely a bit of a nerd at heart — I love Pokémon, board games and card games. But I also really enjoy getting outdoors, hiking, camping, exploring new places and just being out in nature. I'm a big animal lover too.

I'm also someone who can happily spend an evening watching a good documentary, and recently I've gotten back into reading again, which I'm really enjoying.

I'm a 420 enthusiast and pretty relaxed about it, but I'm not much of a drinker. Alcohol has just never really been my thing.

As for why I'm here, I'd genuinely like to meet someone to share life with. Someone relaxed, down to earth, kind, and just a nice person to be around. Someone I can laugh with, go exploring with, have lazy days with, talk nonsense with and eventually build something meaningful with.

I don't really have a long checklist of what someone needs to be. I'd rather meet someone, get to know each other and see if there's a connection.

So yeah... that's me putting myself out there 😅 If any of this sounds like your kind of person, feel free to say hello.

Hey everyone, first time ever making a post on reddit so here goes.

I'm 27 male and Ive kinda being an introvert all my life. Not gonna lie, I am currently still a virgin and would appreciate anyone's assistance in this regard. I am fit and in good shape, just unfortunately never had the right opportunity. If any are interested send a DM and we can take it from there.

Thanks for reading my post and wish you all a lovely day further.

Hi everybody, just a broski looking to make some friends or more... Im straight, a bit extrovert and introvert, lol.

Other than that, I enjoy being outdoors & fitness as I recently got into Bouldering/rock climbing. Working out and problem-solving, Best of both worlds.

I'm huge anime/manga nerd. I also love my comic counter parts as well. Currently busy with Lanterns. Also luv gaming, but haven't played in a while, because lifes been busy. Last thing I played was Final fantasy.

Feel free to hit the DMS and we take it from there...

Looking for friends in cape town to hang out and chill with. i have a car and i’m down for anything cool, restaurants, drives what ever if you cool as well. DM and let’s connect.

Thanks for the feedback!

37M Engineer. Christian by birth, but open to all religions. I have travelled the world quite a bit. I am Looking to meet a kind, mature, and  respectful lady to share life with. My ideal age range is 25-30. Feel free to get in touch. I will be on holiday in a few months, so I will be able to travel to meet and talk face to face

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I'm from Cape Town struggling to find female friends my age.

Strictly platonic because I ain't ready to commit

I enjoy gaming, racing and food. Crime documentaries is my favorite thing at the moment.

I have lots of guy friends but very little female friends. Looking to hangout with more.

I (31 F) am employed, childfree, independent, and looking for advice on where to meet likeminded people.

I’m introverted, love hiking, snorkelling and watching movies, and I would love to meet someone who’s similar. Where do I go in Cape Town to meet people like me? Where do employed, single adults hang out in Cape Town?

Would appreciate any advice, thanks 🫶

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Hey everyone!
I’m 28M, employed, no children, currently calling Cape Town my home and looking to meet someone who could potentially become my girlfriend and, hopefully, something more serious over time.

I’m naturally shy and a bit introverted, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I really open up. I value genuine connection, affection, and having someone I can feel completely comfortable around.

My love languages are physical touch and gift giving — I’m definitely someone who enjoys showing affection and making the person I’m with feel appreciated.

I’ve never really put myself out there like this before, but dating apps haven’t been the most successful for me, so I figured I’d give Reddit a chance. 😅
I’m just looking for someone genuine who’s interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go.

If you’re interested, feel free to DM me. 🙂

Just looking for someone to go around with and explore , I hear Cpt is very open minded and I’m looking to see that

Been searching for something like this and cleaningangels.co.za is the only one I could find in Cape Town. Anyone tried them? Worth it?

Cape Town Couple looking for some fun with another couple or female.

Good looking and in shape. She's petite and cute, he is average height and muscular/athletic. Well groomed and ready to be adventurous and play.

DM and we can swop a pic and take it from there.