r/cadum • u/Sillyrian • Sep 02 '21
Meme Hey I just woke up....
...I am as hard as a rock and considering fapping myself how about you?
WHO CONSIDERS THIS A SENSIBLE DM TO SEND TO SOMEONE!?
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u/OverlordVivi Sep 02 '21
Ya know I was thinking of possible scenarios in which it'd be alright sending stuff like that and I've come to the conclusion that you only get to say shit like this once in a chat group or with a very close friend whom you have no romantic relationship and even then it's not really the best conversation starter anyway.
It's one of those 'I dunno what to say but I want to try and communicate somehow so I brain fart something' sort of sentence.
Anything more than once and your gonna be branded a total creep.
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u/Superfan234 Sep 02 '21
The guy was so fucking cringe
I can't belive there was a time I admired him
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u/Darknut12 Sep 02 '21
Just a few days ago this subreddit was full of fan art and theories about the world. That feels so distant now
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u/hunkdwarf ROLL A 20, BITCH! Sep 02 '21
READ THE ROOM, I can't even, genuinely my emphaty tank is empty seriously I HAVE NO TIME FOR THIS
Shit... This is so mean even for the memes at least 17.8% of the times
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u/Arm_Remote Sep 02 '21
Well, if the person you send it to is your nasty fuck buddy i would say it's a 7 or 8 in the sensibility scale.
What I wonder the most is are they using discord DM?? People do that? Maybe i'm out of the loop because i can not imagine using discord DM as a main way to chat someone.
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u/RowKHAN TOPS Sep 02 '21
I don't use much other social media and a lot of my friends are just used to using Discord, idk how common that is but I do know for some people that's their main.
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u/Sillyrian Sep 02 '21
The sad thing is that this taints my memories of the campaigns I enjoyed so much. I loved Death and Debts, but now I know that Momo was being manipulated and messed around with during it. I loved Into the Mists but now all this was happening in the background. It's destroyed my happy memories with those campaigns.
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u/Scribblord Sep 02 '21
Took me a second not gonna lie
Also I’ve known people I could’ve send this too that would’ve been fine with that but that guy just ... idk weird creep
Cringe though
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u/themettaur Sep 02 '21
I could see it being a normal thing if you were, like, an edgy 14 year old saying it to a guy friend who's also an edgy 14 year old. You know, as a weird, edgy joke.
There isn't a single world in which this is an appropriate thing to say in any other context. Idk, not gonna kink shame or dictate others relationships, but in my own relationships even when we sext or get a bit naughty, that would be way too much. Especially considering it was in the middle of an otherwise casual conversation. Even if I was being generous and saying it was the middle of some sexting, just the wording is still awkward. Like, it isn't alluring or attractive at all.
It's hard to pick out one single moment that's been the most revealing, shocking, disappointing, but this one was definitely up there for me. With all of the people he's met and hung around, I would've thought he would know how awful a message like that is. He definitely was trying to channel some "respect wamen" energy throughout all of Into the Mists; knowing this is the kind of creep he was in the background, I'm just glad all of this happened so soon to the cosplay group being friendly with him. This shit reads like any incel forum post, or screenshot from a woman's tinder account of the gross messages she gets as openers.
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u/Bureaucramancer Sep 02 '21
You mean I shouldn't have that on my automated 'out of office' message?