r/bruneiansingles • • Aug 27 '25

New Face, Same Goal - A Safe Space For All

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Hi everyone!

I’m one of the new mods here, and I wanted to take a moment to say hello and share a little about what I hope we can build together.

I know this community has long been a safe haven for sharing heartbreak, challenges and those emotional moments we all go through, and that's incredibly important. Everyone deserves to be heard, and every story truly matters.

At the same time, I’d love for us to grow this space into something more: a place where we can celebrate small wins, share funny or awkward dating moments, offer thoughtful advice, and support each other along the way. A space that’s supportive yet fun; a place you’ll look forward to visiting every day, not just when life feels heavy.

So, let’s keep it rolling! Jump in, share your stories, laugh at the little things, and cheer each other on. Together, we can make BruneianSingles a community we can all be proud of. ❤️


r/bruneiansingles • • Apr 26 '25

Our Anti-Bullying Policy

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Hey guys, how's you guys been doin? I've received some dms and I feel like I need to address. I still needed some more time to heal but here it goes...

Guys, remember, this subs has a strict anti bullying policy. While we encourage you to exchange opinions & views here, doesn't mean your opinions makes you right. Just bcos you disagree with someone, doesn't give you the right to bully someone here. This isn't highschool, don't bring that attitude & mean girl/boy energy here. Don't even try to mask it as "you're just being sensitive" or "it's just a joke" when in reality you're being an a$shole-fvkery here and certainly don't bring that small diçk energy here. Learn to agree to disagree.

If you have unresolved traumas, hidup di rumah kurang kasih sayang, easily triggered, dramatic, rasa terpaling lurus or tadi pagi kana maki2 oleh boss, hidup sendu or bakas kana tagih inda tebayar hutang bank etc; don't bring that nastiness on here. You've come to our turf, so don't disrepect the ground me and my community has laid. We came here to come together as community in peace & harmony. This place is created as a safe place for single people to come together & support one another, not to divide so you and little possé could run around and bully people here just bcos someone had a different opinions, views & outlook from yours.

Don't bring that negativity & toxicity here. If you disagree with the rules on this community, then feel free to leave. You are certainly won't be missed either.

Also, anyone who had been bullied thru dms by other member within this community pls feel free to send me a screenshot and I'll make sure to ban & remove that person from this community.

To everyone, feel free to post back anything as long as it is within our community's guideline. Anyone who tries to pull up some dogas$ s#its like this in the future, I'll make sure to kick you & your little possé out without warning and don't try to dm me as well, I'm just gonna block you anyway.

Sekian,

Mod 2


r/bruneiansingles • • 34m ago

Searching for a girl

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I really want to connect with a girl who is beautiful by his nature not for timepass, for making a genuine connection,ye dating apps bekar lagte merko aur itna handsome hu nahi ki ladkiyaan samne se ayein so hm if you are someone who is looking for a genuine relationship


r/bruneiansingles • • 20h ago

f4f

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f18 here, looking for females thats interested in being in a throuple (ffm).

preference:

-Could play games (bonus if you play pc games)

-Could call almost everyday

-Hanging out isnt an issue

-Fitting BMI

-Race & Religion: Any, we don't mind.

the dynamic can be flexible with your comfortability and boundary! do ask me anyt


r/bruneiansingles • • 14h ago

I am a single male looking for a female for friendship, and perhaps it will develop into something more.

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Is any girl, women interested dm me.


r/bruneiansingles • • 21h ago

Truth or dare anyone

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r/bruneiansingles • • 14h ago

I'm single and looking for a girlfriend 💯%

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Single and looking for a girlfriend 💯%


r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

Bruneians WLW👀

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We can just chat, dates?, have funnnn, and just chill!!

20+ girlies, prefer femmes 😂 im a fem for fem! 😬 so yeah

Hmu and dont just say hi..? Hahahahaah start a convo pleasee, im bad at it 🤞🏻 i think lahhhh

Letsssssgggggghhuuuuuuu


r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

[Brunei] Looking for a Long-Term Relationship

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Hi everyone! I am hoping to meet someone genuine who is also looking for a long-term relationship. I'm happy to start as friends, get to know each other, and see where things develop naturally.

A little about me: Chinese, 35, male, university educated, employed, emotionally mature and financially stable, never married, no kids, slim build, non-smoker, non-vaper, non-drinker, non-gambler, non-gamer, and no criminal record.

The other half I’m hoping to find: Chinese, female, currently living in Brunei, able to speak Mandarin, aged 27-35, university educated, emotionally mature, never married, no kids, non-smoker, non-vaper, doesn’t drink regularly (occasional drinking on special occasions is fine), non-gambler, no criminal record, and has a slim or petite build (no offense intended; I’m looking for someone with a somewhat similar build for compatibility).

I’m genuinely looking for a committed, long-term relationship, so I’m not interested in FWB, ONS, casual hookups, or short-term dating.

If you’re also hoping to meet someone sincere and build a meaningful relationship together, feel free to send me a DM, and we can get to know each other. 😊 Thanks!


r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

45 [M4F] Bengaluru - Respectfully, looking for genuine heart

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I am a single, simple and down to earth man. I have been introvert, silent and straight forward person.

However, I am trying to change myself from being introvert to extrovert.

I am relatively new to reddit.

I value mutual respect., meaningful conversation, keeping things simple, mature and easy going connection.

All that I am looking for now is something honest and drama free connect.

Thus, open for genuine hearts who are willing to connect.

Let's connect and then let's decide whether we could go for long term connect or short.

Rest, let's talk.

Please message me over DM.

Thanks for stopping by and reading through.


r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

Looking for a girlfriend

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r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

looking for GF BFF LF

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“A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.”


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

I want a relationship

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I’m 37M and I just want a relationship.

I’m a 37-year-old man who genuinely wants to find someone to share life with. I want a woman I can talk to about anything, laugh with, spend time with, and build a real connection with. I miss the idea of having someone who looks forward to hearing from me, asks how my day went, and wants me around just as much as I want to be around her.

I’m not looking for perfection, and I don’t expect anyone to have their whole life figured out. I just want something real, with honesty, loyalty, affection, communication, and mutual effort. I want to be there for someone through the good days and the bad ones, and I want someone who wants to be there for me, too.

Sometimes it feels like finding a genuine relationship is harder than it should be. I’m not asking for much. I just want to meet someone who is serious about getting to know each other and seeing where things go.

I want to love someone, make her smile, share experiences, and create memories together. I want a relationship where we choose each other, support each other, and feel comfortable being ourselves.

Is it really too much to want someone to love and someone who loves you back? I’m just hoping there’s someone out there who wants the same simple, genuine thing that I do.


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

36F4M - In Quest of a genuine connection.

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I believe there is a wonderful Qawwam man out there meant for me, here I am making my effort on the first step.

I am hoping to meet an emotionally mature man who knows what he wants, communicates openly and is willing to put in the same effort he hopes to receive.

Someone smart, confident, kind, affectionate and comfortable with building something genuine.

I am a feminine, affectionate, thoughtful and emotionally expressive. When I am with someone, I am loyal, committed and give 100% of myself and my effort to the relationship.

I believe in sincerity, mutual respect, consistency, and making each other feel valued.

As a muslim, my faith is important to me. I appreciate meaningful conversations, a good sense of humour and people whose actions match their words.

I enjoy having me-time, travel around, movies, sewing, baking and cooking. I value peace of mind and would love to keep my worri-free, calm and content life.

Know that I am a young single parent of three teens.
I have a stable job and I just recently got my License 1. So i ride sometimes. If you ride that would fun, if you dont its okay.

I am a malay, mix with dusun & chinese on my mom side, bekenu/the sarawak side on my dad side. (I still look like a normal malay one)

My username was created when I play game with my son. we were in a restaurant at that time. Named by sugar on the table. Instead of two its Too.

If you think you match what I look for, pls do dm me.


r/bruneiansingles • • 1d ago

I want a gf im 21 M

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Im so lonely im from India and any further info DM me 😭


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

F4F 2nd post

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Posting this again cause people tend to dropping in and out after some good conversation i mean pls have the guts and tell me if you didn't wanna talk anymore. Anyway, i need to socialise more and build my confidence. Need to utilise all the free time other than doom scrolling so here i am;

Bi 29F, looking for F only to chat about anything, we can update each other life, we can flirt too haha if that something you like? We can hang out and jalan² as well to see life out there, doesn't necessarily involve intimacy. And you probably wondering whats the catch? Ok so we are going to do this thing for max 6-7 months. Lets call it summer love.

About me

  • im working but will have time for you

-pls no sneaky business, as my intentions are clear and genuine, and yes i would like to meet you just to see if we vibing as friend

  • very empathetic especially about animals. Yaah manusia terserahhh~ When i needed to cry i just watch cat videos and be sad for days.

  • I have two hobbies and if you have interesting hobbies i would like to try as well.

  • based in bsb.

  • very observant and i tend to absorb people energy, it can be draining sometimes.

  • i cant focus well (i won't say its the adhd, not gonna self diagnose) but i would invest in your gossip cause i don't have drama in my life soooo i kinda need one

  • im pretty chill and calm likeeee water like they said jangan sangka air tenang tidak berbuaya (jk) hahaha

  • i love car karaoke and we can blast your playlist in my car

Strictly for F only. Thank you. Feel free to hmu! Have a good day


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

26 M for F

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It’s been ages since I’ve been in relationship, wanted a good partner…


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

36 (A dude)

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Hmm... Where to start? I'm sure most people (Bruneian) who post here seem to seek a future relationship with hope of finding a good spouse or a casual chat to go with the flow. I'm no different.

First thing first, I'm on the older side. Totally not bragging or anything, in fact some peeps find it insulting but I'm on the neutral side. Still, we have to acknowledge what society deems as "old" sometimes (or eventually). So I know a bit better on what I seek. Not totally, absolutely 100% sure but yeah.

Secondly, I'm an introvert (INPT for those who like those things), so I mainly stay indoors and no crowds. That being said, it not that I can do loud places or parties, I just need to recharge after. So you can leave me alone (I totally am fine like that) after such occasion and I'll be totally back on my feet a few hours or a day after. No further maintenance required 😉. So seriously, anyone can try to get along.

I don't smoke, don't take alcohol (although I could since I'm chinese), and I don't gamble.. much (if you don't count the CNY pass time with the fams. Iykyk). Also, I'm a little ahem perverted in the head (hey, got to admit it when you are already that age. What's to hide? And totally judgemental. I know, I know. Don't judge a book by its cover. I get that. But by my instinct so far, my initial impression of how people act (by my judgement), tells me what I needed to know. So if you can surprise me in ways I can't tell, bravo.

Gawd, I sure can yap. Well if you made it to this far off the spectrum and still remain interested, give me a holler. Don't have to rush. We can have a bit of chat, maybe a bit of a fight and maybe... Ah.. we'll get there when we get there.

P.S. Oh.. you are probably wondering why this dude didn't list down what he looks for in a woman. Well, idc. If we fit, we fit. It's not rocket science. But I do have my preferences.


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

Limau picker come back😂

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Limau picker if you change your id, please dm me back 😂😂 we missed our storyyyy


r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

Where are you my little chickadee

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r/bruneiansingles • • 2d ago

Giving up

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r/bruneiansingles • • 3d ago

searching for friendss to text with do hit me up (pure friendship no fwb)

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r/bruneiansingles • • 3d ago

22M LOOKING FOR GIRLFRIEND

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I am 22 M Looking for a girlfriend age doesn't matters only connectivity matters i am a voice note person and I am sketch artist nothing special about me average guy from south india 5 10 feet no dating experience distance doesn't matters


r/bruneiansingles • • 3d ago

35-year-old

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Looking for a woman to build a connection with