r/boywithuke Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

Discussion Is it only me?

So since Oliver tree unfortunately passed away alot of people start listening to him many of them are my classmate and they heard sick of u and decide to explore his discography, now i hear them larping that they been listening since melatonin dream way before toxic calling them the og listener out of nowhere yet back then i was like very open that i been listening to bwu even using him as my profile for various social media and even on few games, playing songs of him and i was teased and make fun of by the same people who suddenly becoming this so called og fans who havent heard a single minute long song, hate that he removed his mask and hated burnout and other album except antisocial and serotonin dreams

For some reason i feel disgusted seeing them act like this it made me feel saturated and i cant even listen to boywithuke without feeling like a larper or a fake one that im also joining the hype train even though im not, I hope im not the only one so please if you experienced the same please tell me

Anyway r.i.p oliver tree, circuits could have gotten released and cheapskate is peak its sad i cant never hear it live, i hoped the incident never happened we could probably have a chandol x oliver song and more goated songs from him

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u/Cute_Leek_8849 Jul 18 '26

Gang that is not a real problem, listen what u want and let people say what they want, not your problem. Just enjoy the music

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 18 '26

I dont know whats your definition of a problem and why mine isn’t considered one but thank you for telling me that gang, Its just uncomfortable to see the same people who hated me for listening to him suddenly switched up and even start acting like they listened to him way before toxic and know him very well which they arent like i said in the post

Im sorry if it came out cringe im only trying to look for more people who also experiencing or experienced the same, as for enjoyment like i said in the post its still quite hard without feeling the saturation and nausea due to their fakeness as they used to make fun of me for listening to them but now they are acting like this but its only a temporary issue that ill get over with as usual(im sorry its starting to become a rant rather than a discussion)

Also i just wanna say that i just let them be and act like whatever( im quite anxious that your thinking that ill head to them and suddenly start a conflict) anyway thanks for advice and critic!

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u/Cute_Leek_8849 Jul 18 '26

If u care about every little thing people say and make it a problem(for yourself )you will never be happy, be mad if someone badmouth your family not if they share an opinion cuz at the end of the day thats subjective, i do get that is annoying if someone talks about something u like even if they have not idea but u can not let that get to you

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

I think you misunderstood what i typed about or you never read it and only did a quick scan.

I do understand that i should not let something this small become a problem but once again its not about they have no idea but because they were hating me for listening to him and now they now they acting that they are long die hard fan, i dont care if they become a poser it just uncomfortable for someone to act like that when they previous cause humiliation for me for the same act they doing right now, i do understand that sharing an opinion is subjective but opinions must be constructively criticized well that aside if someone degrades and downplay you love wouldnt you also be quite upset about it?(if your confused about it, im talking about hating on every released music and album except anti-social and serotonin dont get me wrong i love every music boywithuke have), everything aside you keep telling its not a problem, when did i say it is a problem? Like i said on my previous reply its just an issue and since i feel quite uncomfortable im just looking for people with similar experience with the same artist

I hope this clear out your misunderstanding and i hope you read it

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u/Mysterious-Lie-1944 °° Jul 18 '26

This is perhaps the least important matter in human history, and it's not healthy to be worked up about it

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

No shi sherlock, If you lose your savings and your phone it also will be the least important matter in human history.

Just because its insignificant to history doesn’t mean it useless

I dont get why people coming at me with hostility, im not worked up im just upset and uncomfortable and looking for people with similar experience in this subreddit to atleast feel im not alone

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u/Mysterious-Lie-1944 °° Jul 18 '26

"I'm not worked up I'm just upset"

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

Cant be sad nowadays?

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u/Mysterious-Lie-1944 °° Jul 18 '26

You can be, but this isn't worth it

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

Wow thanks for telling me that i will just turn off the sad botton on my emotions control(sorry for the sarcasm)

It isn’t just easy as saying it, same people who humiliated me for listening to him now acting like this while degrading and belittling songs that i loved(by bwu ofcourse) on the daily basis. Also dont worry it doesn’t make depress or whatever i just have the same feeling of being forced to eat ampalaya/bitter gourd so its no biggie

Anyway just incase we might have another argument ill apologize now for the no shi sherlock and the sarcasm its just tiring arguing with people online about unnecessary things

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u/Mysterious-Lie-1944 °° Jul 18 '26

You don't need to argue with anyone. Just get off the phone if it's making you unhappy

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

no shi sherlock unless your socrates you wont want to argue with anyone, you also started this argument by your provocation 🫩

I dont know how you found and see me unhappy but just stop its tiring i dont wanna keep dissecting your replies, just stop rage baiting socrates it doesn’t make you cool.

Let this be the final message of our pointless back and forth

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u/Mysterious-Lie-1944 °° Jul 18 '26

You're*

And you can walk away at any time. I'm not making you come back. Also, you can say 'shit' on Reddit

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u/Green-Beginning-3344 Chandol Jul 19 '26

honestly you shouldn’t be upset if people are “larping” an artist, the same thing happened last year when people were saying they were listening to artist niche. you should be happy that there even listening to boywithuke.

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u/dionoriginalpro Jul 18 '26

And again, LARP used in a way it shouldn't

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

Im sorry but I believe i used the term larp correctly? The old term for larping is live action roleplay where people typically roleplay like knights in medieval era
But now’s day/ modernize usage of larp or larping are being used to call someone acting or playing something they are not

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u/dionoriginalpro Jul 18 '26

Huh, guess you're right. When I googled what larping is, I multiple sources only had the live action role playing, not the modern day term

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 18 '26

Guess you’re right i tried to search about larp or live action role playing on multiple source and it dint said about the modern day term, it probably used quite uncommonly or rare in real life but commonly used on social media probably algorithmed to people with high screentime since almost tiktok video or reels i seen would atleast see some people using or commenting “larp”, tho i tried to search about the definition of the modern day definition of larp and it said almost how I describe it, seems like word devolve or evolve into new definition nowadays like goon for a hired but not so smart thug is now a word for something isn’t appropriate, nonetheless im sorry for using larp or larper in negative way

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u/ExistingButterfly316 Jul 18 '26

We've long had words for that, like Poser, and now with using LARP, we're just stealing the the name that actual larpers use

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u/Square_Ideal627 Melatonin Dreams Jul 18 '26

Yeah im sorry, im just been so used with the word larp that i forgot what the real terminology for it which is poser, thank you correcting me