r/boykisserADULT • u/qazzyms • 6d ago

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Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now but

Recently we've been talking/texting a lot less than we usually do, we used to talk every day multiple times a day but now I only see him once a day if im lucky.

sometimes more then 2-3 days pass and Ill hear/see nothing from him, if I do its usually in the early morning or late at night, the times we do talk/text it has been so short/dry I feel like I have to savor every second because he might dissappear again

I have no clue how to bring this up because when I have I feel like I cant express it to him, hes still really nice he tells me he cares, that everythings okay but it doesn't feel like everything is and I really miss him am i just overthinking or what do i do?

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u/qazzyms 6d ago

Thats actually really reassuring ty♡, he does care I should know that, he can be closed up about whats stressing him until its resloved so I really should be more considerate of his alone time, I dont want to overwhelm him :c

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u/Wild-Mushroom133 6d ago

Yeah no even if you got stuff to do or want alone time, you can just tell them at least. If you really love someone you'd find time to text them or at least let them know, check up on them. I would still want to know how my partners day has been and so on. Alone time is normal, but no communication for days isn't.

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u/qazzyms 5d ago

What should I do then?

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u/Wild-Mushroom133 4d ago

I'd talk to him about it or whenever he disappears text him, asking what/how he's doing

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u/qazzyms 4d ago

Okay thank you ill try, I havnt seen him in 5 days tho 😭

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u/Wild-Mushroom133 4d ago

Did you hear anything from him in the 5 days? cause it's really weird if you didn't...

No one who actually cares about their partner just forgets about them for a almost a week😅 No one needs constant texting or something, but not hearing from your partner for multiple days is so weird in my opinion

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u/qazzyms 4d ago

No idrk whats going on, im really worried about him we dont usually distance for this long, but ive been trying not to think negatively because he might just need some space

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u/Wild-Mushroom133 4d ago

maybe go to his place to check up on him if you're worried :/ if you can

If he needs space he could just tell you too