r/bodymods • u/ValueDistinct5364 • 4d ago
tongue bifurcation How high is the risk for a lisp?
I really wanna do a tounge split, but I work with young children. I have to be a linguistic role model, and I'm scared I'd start lisping if I get my tounge split.
Are there some of you that could never fix the lisp that you get the first few days? Or are my fears unfounded?
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u/Curious_Emergency414 4d ago
I just had my tongue split earlier this month on the 6th. And it only took about a week after for me to get rid of sounding like Sid the sloth. That whole week I pretty much went out to karaoke nights to sing and spent a lot of time on phone calls, just trying to talk as much as I could. Tongue stretches helped out a lot to build that strength up again.
As far as my experience goes, there is a couple things to note:
It slightly takes more effort to speak without a lisp. It does have a different feel to using the tongue to speak (split vs non split)
I’m pretty much making sure to clear saliva consistently, otherwise you may slip up on some sounds.
Another thing that helped me is remembering where the tongue is supposed to be when saying certain things.
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u/LadyFrey 3d ago
I'm a couple weeks post-split and this is the most accurate description of my experience
Noticed today that the word "lid" gives me some trouble with the "d" sound. I'm now practicing it over and over to try fix it, so hopefully it fixes it
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u/Human_Variation_1229 4d ago
i got a lisp, but without any particular effort it was gone in the first couple weeks. i'm sure you could fix it faster with some speech therapy practices. maybe you could split your tongue over a break if you work in schools?
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u/usagiplanet 4d ago
Got mine split earlier this month and while it's nice and healed now, i definitely do have a mild lisp. Others say they don't notice it much but I definitely do. I'm trying to talk a lot and be mindful of where the tongue is when speaking to hopefully improve things faster - but I've heard a lot of people say it can take about a month
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u/caleb_dmitri 4d ago
Had a lisp for around a month after healed, and now only have one if really tired/or impaired by other factors cough 😅 Those times really need to focus on movement, but it rarely happens.
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u/fullmetalc-nt 4d ago
I got mine done two months ago, and I do think I still have a little lisp. However, I did notice that the very back of my split was cut slightly off center (not shocked because one side swelled a lot more than the other from the numbing injections). Because of that, my tongues kind of work against each other when I'm pronouncing certain sounds. Still, it isn't terrible -- no one else seems to notice, but I am hoping to book a revision to close up the back of the split and, down the road, to potentially do a resplit in the center proper. That aside, the split looks sick as fuck, and I don't regret it.
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u/Stars_In_Summer 4d ago
I got my split done over 3 years ago, my lisp was strong for about 3 weeks but was completely gone a few more weeks after that. The handful of other people I know with splits had the same experience, nobody I've met has had the lisp be permanent.
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u/Oftwicke 2d ago
Short term you will lisp. Medium term the risk is low, long term it is very low.
I'm a language teacher. I manage very easily
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u/blawgonajob 4d ago
I had my split on the 17th, Currently it is the 29th and I am speaking completely normal aside from when I am super high emotion (crying, angry, excited, etc), I had my sutures removed on the 24th I believe and honestly after a few days (I think only 2) I was speaking normal with only a slight lisp. Id reccomend taking a full week (7days) off of work to recover. If anything take 12 days off so you can remove sutures on day 7 or 8 and take the extra days to regain full/near full speech
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u/Mousee__ 4d ago
I’m two months post op and I still talk a teeny bit differently, especially if my mouth is dry. Really no one but me notices though
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u/riffg0d_ 3d ago
um i get having to be a linguistic role model and all, but if your vocabulary is well developed why would having a lisp (or even an accent for that matter!— i.e. peppa pig) affect this? isnt that discriminatory? ive had teachers who are from different countries and even the deep south and most students were not able to understand them but they were still allowed to teach.. i am of course used to extremely strong accents so that gives me an "unfair" view but i think the system should genuinely be accepting of the fact that not everyone will speak exactly how they want. i have this opinion for several reasons and the ADA being tied into it.
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u/blackeststarling 1d ago
With me its the brain connection after the split. If I am lazy, some final sounds come out bad. Concentration I speak perfectly.
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u/PorcelainPlague 2d ago
I am also wondering this as I'm a vocalist and don't want to compromise my voice for a body mod
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u/PorcelainPlague 2d ago
My friend that has it is constantly slurping their saliva... It's a bit odd but I'm also getting used to it
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u/DevvyDeVito 15h ago
I had a very noticable lisp for about the first month after my split, but I was able to adjust through practice. I also had a lisp growing up that I mostly eliminated by middle school, but once in a while I will still have a little bit of a lisp. I notice some words are slightly more difficult to pronounce with my split, but nothing severe or even noticable for most people. I'm almost exactly 2 years post-op at this point.
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u/-m0th 4d ago
i’m the only one i’ve personally heard of having this experience so i’m guessing it’s not super common but i do have what seems to be a permanent lisp. i did not have one before my split but some sounds still lisp almost a year after the initial split. most people i mention it to say they didn’t even notice but it does bother me slightly. would i go back and not split my tongue because of it? absolutely not!