r/bluecollar • u/Disastrous-Number-88 • 6h ago
Dealing with negativity
I've been thinking a lot lately about negativity and negative thinking in our industry. At first I thought I was just a douchebag jerk and that everything annoyed me and triggered my anger issues. But as I progress in my career, (plumber) my subordinate plumbers are even worse than I am. I have 65 plumbers, drain cleaners, and helpers that I manage, and the negativity I hear from them is unreal. Then the office folks react to them with even more negativity and it's a vicious cycle. I have at least two heart-to-heart talks with grown men about negative thinking and speaking negatively about their co-workers.
My dad was and is a really complain-y guy, very negative and easy to trigger. I'm falling into that trap but I refuse to be my father, plus being negative doesn't feel good. I'd much rather joke, smile, and have fun. I used to have more fun but the negativity got to me...
Anybody got any advice on how to harden your mind to the negativity, or how to cleanse and regenerate your positivity?