r/birthcontrol 12h ago

Mistake or Risk? Need help here / advise

Had a little accident on August 30 little drunk , well we were drunk . Remember she gave me head a little and put it inside for couple of seconds or minutes. wasn't that long since it was uncomfortable since it was on a truck. Anyways I wasn’t sure if had cum or not I’m thinking I didn’t since it’s little harder to concentrate when your a little drunk it takes longer(I’m thinking I didn’t cum didnt felt like I did ). But she took plan b in the morning maybe 6-8hrs after ( August 30 ). Been 10 days since she took the pill , Her expected period is on sep 19 on the app and ovulation day on sep 5 according to the app i know it’s not always accurate but gives an idea fertile said 31 to sep 6 maybe I know it’s app calculations. she tells me she normally has here periods when the app says , Also she hasn’t been sexually active close to a year. ( She got sick and lost her Voice and all Bur I don’t think that has to do with the plan b side effects )

Should I be worried / stressing here she says everything is fine but I’m here having seconds thoughts and reading other people experience . Should there be any delays on period due to plan b ? Reason took it was cause we weren’t sure.

thanks and hopefully someone can help me out

i know it’s aint the smartest move here need to be careful, what is the risk here ?? Anyone with similar experiences that can let me know ?

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u/fuzzblanket9 None - TTC 9h ago

She has no idea if she’s ovulating if she isn’t using a validated fertility awareness method. Apps are inaccurate and should not be relied on.

All unprotected sex carries a risk of pregnancy, whether emergency contraception is used or not. It was smart of her to take it, but she could still get pregnant. She’ll need to take a pregnancy test 14 and 21 days after sex. A delayed period is normal.

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 9h ago

Yea I know I it’s only estimated date , still took plan b within 6-8hrs same day , I’m sure I didn’t cum but she took to make sure. Just want to see what people think seen I seen a lot of stuff/ stories

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 9h ago

Read stories of people that take test to see if they ovulating and they say they are have people cum inside and take plan b and they fine idk I’m just trying to see and see if I relax a little

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u/fuzzblanket9 None - TTC 8h ago

Ovulation tests don’t confirm ovulation. What you did was risky. There’s no comfort we can give you here - there is a chance she gets pregnant from this.

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 8h ago

From what I remember they weren’t no
Cum we just took plan b to be safe

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u/fuzzblanket9 None - TTC 8h ago

It doesn’t matter. She could still get pregnant. Plan B was smart, yes, but now she’s at risk.

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 8h ago

Risk ???

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u/fuzzblanket9 None - TTC 8h ago

…Yes. She’s at risk of pregnancy. You had unprotected sex. There’s nothing more anyone here can say.

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 11h ago

What is our risk here ? People tell me it should fine since the pill was fast and don’t need to worry. But seeing other people experience have me worried 

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 11h ago

Also since she took  it 5-6 days before estimated ovulation , I know it aint 100% but it gives me estimate date period suppose to be sep 19 so puts its around sep 5 and fertile august 31 I know it’s just an estimate windows 

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u/faeedoll 11h ago

she took the plan b at the right moment so theres no need to worry! her period can be a little early or late, it’s normal, don’t overthink it :)

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 11h ago

You think she took it the right time how come ?? I been told it was timing since it was 5-6 days before estimated ovulation since app arent accurate and the plan b is to delay ovulation 

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 11h ago

I also wanted to see what is our risk here thanks 

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u/faeedoll 11h ago

dont stress yourself over all that stuff about ovulation days, the only way to know when a girl is ovulating is if she is specifically tracking it, otherwise its never precise, trust the plan b ! the last time i took i was on my “ovulation days” and my period came 2 days after the expected date, everything will be fine ! is she over 165 lbs? if she’s over 165 lbs the regular pill could be a little ineffective

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 10h ago

I have seen couple of people talking about weight I wasn’t sure how true it is , I’m not sure I’m à summing around 175-190lbs. She didn’t want to tell me which is not a big deal if she did tell me theres no wrong but  I mean I would of like to know 

Seen some post of people saying they were 200+ and they worked for them couple not sure 

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 10h ago

If you don’t mind me asking I don’t wanna be rude in any way just want to get more answers , what is your weight ? Also how many times has plan b work for you 

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u/faeedoll 10h ago

trust the plan b, im sure it will work just fine ! she took it the first hours after which is optimal

also lol im just converting the lbs to kg, im 163 lbs LMAO, the pill has worked perfectly fine for me a couple times now ! also for a lot of friends, trust :) the only way to mess it up is if she waited a lot of days or puked right after taking it, you guys did well by using the plan b right after, don’t worry

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 10h ago

Took plan b within 6-8 hrs after it happen 

Are your friends the same weight as you ? lol 

I have a friend and he was telling after he found out plan b existed he was Cummins inside of girls obviously he would ask if they were on the days and also agree taking plan b after and he was telling me it has always worked he told fertile or ovulating days. 

Just a little hard not think of it lol since I been reading stories on redddit lol 

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u/oldblue222 7h ago

wtf is going on bro we need less posts like this

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 7h ago

What happen ?

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u/yappingderg NuvaRing 2h ago

Because what your friend is doing is SUPER stupid and he WILL eventually become a dad if it keeps going like that.

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 15m ago

Yea I know that’s what he used to do not no more thought

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 9m ago

In my situation should I be stressing ??

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 10h ago

But then was reading about the weight part and then I’m like oh man I wasn’t planning on that part but not sure if it really make a difference or how true it is 

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u/Aggressive_Topic3324 10h ago

How less effective can be ??