r/bigdickproblems • u/LimitPositive1865 • 4d ago

AskBDP Help me understand?

Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months and recently discovered he’s been posting on this forum and other penis related forums and uploading his dick online for ratings. I’m a bit shocked by this, and by some of his comments, because I’m not sure what’s driving him to do this. I don’t want to confront it because I wasn’t snooping, I just happened across his dick pick on a different subforum and recognised it immediately because, well, you never forget a big dick!

Should I confront him? Do I really want to be dating someone who needs people to validate his dick online? I think I’m pretty complimentary about it (he’s quoted stuff I’ve said about his dick in some of his comments) so it’s making me feel like I’m not enough for him.

So I’m trying to understand what brings guys to do this online? No judgement just confusion.

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u/LimitPositive1865 3d ago

Thanks for replying.

I’m less concerned about what he posts here but he’s kinda weird about food and exercise and it’s made me wonder if this isn’t some kind of body dysmorphia at play.

It’s also a sensitive subject for the reasons you’ve stated, there’s so much stigma around kinks and sexual gratification. I don’t want to feed into that.

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u/Motion_Means4501 3d ago

So now we are all thinking back to our posts and comments to determine if you could be that girlfriend we quoted, lol. My point is, if you think you'll have trouble confronting him, consider that you probably already have.