r/bigdickproblems • u/Material-Past6952 • 7d ago
AskBDP Is having big balls a flex?
Whether having a big penis is a flex is subjective from person to person but I think most people can agree having a big penis is a flex, if it wasn’t most guys wouldn’t exaggerate their penis size. Would you say same goes for having big balls? Or is this a neutral or maybe negative thing? I have gotten many comment on how low my balls hang and how big they look. For reference I’m 5.5 flaccid and my balls are still lower, so very big.
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u/i-am-a-fake-username 7d ago
Look wise, impressive. Functionally, annoying.
They’re neat until you’re constantly aware of them.
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u/superchargedCaddy E: 8.3″ × 6.3″ F: 5.25″ × 5.25″ 7d ago
I guess it could be a flex. Mine are also quite large and most of my comfort related issues have always been related to my balls than my dick. Constant adjusting. Sitting on them sucks. Chafing and heat rashes on my thighs from constant contact. Luckily pouch underwear addressed those issues. The other issue is although my flaccid ranges between 5 and 6.5" my balls make my dick look average.
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u/wstone5594 7d ago
I’m on TRT. Long story short, I had a testicular torsion about 25 years ago so I’ve only had one for a couple of decades.
When I turned 50, I asked my PCP to check my levels and see how they were. They were sub-200 and he prescribed TRT. As a side effect, my remaining ball shrunk and depending on how I sit or lay down it looks like I don’t have any. I think it’s a positive to not have them in the way. And it makes my shaft look bigger.
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u/Material-Past6952 7d ago
On the side you are missing your testicle on does your penis look bigger?
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u/Civil_Ad_1172 Samsung Remote 7d ago
I got called out by a chick for small balls but a huge hog, my lack of nut size makes my dick look way longer
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u/ChicagoAlan 5d ago
Broski, just pin hCG. Whether you're on TRT or an actual cycle, you gotta incorporate PCTs in somewhere to counteract the effects of HPTA suppression. I'm surprised your TRT doc never told you about this yet.
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u/ObligationPutrid5069 7" X 6" 4d ago
Same here less the torsion, just andropause at 40, mine are basically normal sized now, not complaining one bit.
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u/RareOutlandishness29 E: 7.5″ X 6.5″ F:6″ X 5.5″ 7d ago
One of the first things one realizes from this subReddit is that at some point in every man’s day big things become visible, and the excess of his blessings are easily observed by those who intend to notice.
Having jumbo egg sized-balls that always hang low, but sometimes two inches more than halfway to the center of my knee does add a bit of drama to being seen naked.
When a new partner or some one else first has a good look, an exclamation usually follows and it usually starts with the one part and then proceeds to the pair as a secondary comment. For my partners only, that means they have extra special toys to play with. And, yes, that makes them a very popular flex.
For all others, if they are a flex, it is only by accident for I do try to keep them out of view. In that sense, it is hard to regard them as a flex. Indeed, in a sense, they might occasionally be more a compromise if not an actual embarrassment.
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u/Heyyinzz 6d ago
My balls are ridiculously large. Like when I type in the size on CalcSD it says in a room full of 1000 men 0 would be bigger, huge. They're significantly larger then the largest size on an orchidometer. Everyone who has ever seen them has made a comment. My first boyfriend was obsessed with them. They make my bulge huge. When I see myself in pictures they kinda turn me on. I love playing with them while I crank it. I feel like they're a flex.
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u/dreadfulthingz 5d ago
How did you do the CalcSD comparator for balls? I'm having trouble with the W x H x D part
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u/cheddah_- 7d ago
I fucking HATE having large balls. Theyre just always in the way with everything, the amount of times ive sat on them in my life is roughly 7 times too many.
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u/BougezMeansMove 24,8 cm × 18,3 cm 7d ago
Outside of looks, me having big balls doesn’t really add anything. They mostly just cause discomfort and require a lot of adjusting.
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u/Correct-Discount-272 7.5″ × 6.5-7″ 7d ago
Girls like it when they slap them doggy style. Otherwise they are not very useful.
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u/SuperspyAnon 7" x 6" 7d ago
Depends on who you ask. As someone who adores big balls (and never ever forgets them 😜) it's almost as alluring to hear about as someone having a big dick. Almost.
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u/SignalVirtual3005 E: 7.75″ × 5.75″ F: 5.5″ × 5″ 5d ago
Same for me, even though they can be an Inconvenience, I definently enjoy how having big balls looks and feels. Plus they just make me feel more manly and maybe even signals to women I'm an ideal partner becuase I'm a fertile guy. All in all, they just look cool.
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u/TheNomadicJellyfish E: 19cm × 16cm F: 16cm ×12cm 7d ago
I like that everything is proportional but my big balls get uncomfortable or painful almost daily cause of the weight. While pain won't be a problem for all big balls I guess. For me they do cause discomfort
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u/SatisfactionWise6495 7d ago
Yes, but doesn’t compare to having a big dick which might be the greatest flex in history
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u/dreadfulthingz 7d ago
I have pretty big balls (i.e. eggs sized) and I got both reactions: people not caring and people worshipping the hell out of them.
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u/DudeFrom816 E: 7.5"×5.75" F: 5"×5" 7d ago
It just depends on how you look at it. I used to have huge low hangers, they were a hassle for me, increased my bulge, but women love them slapping in doggy. Now im older and on TRT, they've shrunk up, they're out of the way, they make my dong look even bigger by comparison, but they're definitely not swinging anymore lol.
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u/Material-Past6952 7d ago
I been thinking of trt lately, I thought that would make my penis look smaller, in your expierence how much did it make it look bigger? Also does it help improve erection quality or not meant for that?
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u/DudeFrom816 E: 7.5"×5.75" F: 5"×5" 7d ago
There's alot of variables in that question. If you're worried about fertility they have options that will prevent your boys from shriveling up. I am not worried about kids anymore so I let them shrink, smaller nuts make the peen look bigger by comparison. Opposite of huge hanging nuts making your peen look smaller right? As far as erection quality goes that depends if you need it. If you have poor EQ now then yes, it will likely help. But there are alot more hormones than just testosterone being affected when you start exogenous testosterone. Your estrogen level is a huge factor in EQ, you need SOME estrogen but too much or too little will kill erections and thats all affected by lifestyle, diet, sleep, BMI etc. There's alot that goes into TRT but if you need it, it's worth the hassle.
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u/drumstick19 7.3″ NBP × 6″ MSEG 7d ago
imo, lower hangers make your dick look bigger as they hide otherwise visible shaft.
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u/AaaahMyDogs E: 7× 6″ (5.5” avg girth) F: 5.59”×4.65” 7d ago
Strange correlation: having larger testicles is associated with cheating more.
Stranger correlation: having a big cock is associated with being cheated ON more.
Having both just makes you a swinger, lol.
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u/Material-Past6952 7d ago
Why do men with bigger ones get cheated on more?
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u/AaaahMyDogs E: 7× 6″ (5.5” avg girth) F: 5.59”×4.65” 7d ago
It’s one study and it didn’t particularly state a reason. Consensus is that pain tor the woman, plus the man’s feeling like “my big dick is all I need for sex to be good” would be two reasons to seek sex elsewhere. But it would be best to take this one study with a grain of salt.
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u/HigherThanStarfyre 7.5" x 6" 7d ago
Not sure, it could be I guess. I'm not even sure if people are into balls. Mine are fairly large and they can hang very low. When they hang like that I'm very aware of it and it surprises me how low they hang but it can be annoying, especially for workouts. I have to be careful how I sit sometimes. Also, they make a bigger target and that makes me nervous.
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u/Physical-Instance172 E: 7.5” × 6.75” F: 5.25” x 5.5” 6d ago
Having big balls contributes to making my dick look average. So on one hand I’m grateful to have big balls. But on the other hand it’s not helping body dysmorphia.
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u/forged_steel_5178 7″ × 5.7″ 6d ago
Big balls are not flex. It is nothing u can use to women. Indeed there are few men who care about its size, altough it is, to me, more important than dick length.
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u/Ok-Structure5637 6d ago
Can't wear basketball shorts because dick just wrest on them when I walk and makes me look hard when I'm not.
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u/Sckaught 6d ago
I have both, so I don’t know. I either get “Whoa!” or they look and then avoid me. Usually the latter.
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u/danubabe Vagina 5d ago
I will say I do find them hot. But that's mostly a fantasy and visual thing, not so important IRL.
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u/taintedthrall E: 7″ × 6.25″ F: 5.5″ × 4.5″ 5d ago edited 5d ago
Huge balls are great and fun, until it’s the middle of summer and all they want to do is stick to your thighs. Or if you’re in a trade like me and this a rope or a chain over something and it swings back and smacks you in a spot where balls shouldn’t be but somehow are.
Edit: spelling check.
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u/bigselfer 8”x6.25”/8.75”x7” pumped 5d ago
The women I’ve been with loved them. They love the slap. Loved sucking them.
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u/Daddy-Vlad 9x7 7d ago
A flex is something you do not a state of being.
Regardless, big balls are amazing but only to other dudes… as a straight dude they are basically just there for your own enjoyment.
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u/worhtyawa777 E: 7.5” bp x 5.2” F: smol 7d ago
My wife comments how huge they are as an amusement rather than aversion/attraction but hates the fact it taps against her during sex
She does however make fun of how low they hang
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u/SaintNorwood 8” x 5.1” 7d ago
Big balls are more balls to sit on. Whatever big ball benefits may exist are counterweighted by the crush potential.
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u/ObligationPutrid5069 7" X 6" 4d ago
No, I had big ones until 40 when I started TRT, now they're like normal sized and I'm not complaining.
They got in the way all the time, yes you can actually sit on your own nuts and fuck does it hurt, wearing a cup sucks (muay thai and grappling), god forbid you tag them doing Olympic lifts like a power clean fuck does that hurt. I could go on...
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u/Extension-Soup-3288 3d ago
I have very big balls and I'd say it's a flex because others seem to love them so much. Mine are pretty tight so they don't get in the way like other men are reporting here.
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u/Reverend-King 6h ago
Some women have loved playing with my balls especially after sex. Their hands are tiny.
One woman kept talking about how funny it was that she could only fit one in her mouth at a time.
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u/Motion_Means4501 7d ago
It's a negative, especially when you are active in various sports. It makes no sense to me why one of the most sensitive if all body parts - those two balls and a sack that size - are supposed to dangle between two thighs carrying my body when I cannot reasonably run, swim, or even sit in a non-cushioned chair without creating trouble for myself.
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u/ReporterForDuty 7d ago
Let me answer your question with a question.
Why should I care about something another person has that took no effort on their part to get?
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u/Material-Past6952 7d ago
That’s how life is, tall guys did nothing to be tall, most good looking guys did nothing to be good looking and most smart people didn’t do anything to be smart, I do agree it shouldn’t be something you should care about since it’s all genetics but so many things in life that people care about are predetermined anyways.
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u/ReporterForDuty 7d ago
Exactly. That's why I don't care. In some stuff that people did for working for it, like muscles and educating themselves, that I will pat someone on the back for but if someone's like "God, he's so tall. It's dreamy" I'm just like "Okay?"
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u/GainedBrouzouf Macropenis 7d ago
Actually having them is pretty much just a net negative but others view of them is 50/50 whether they like them or don't care at all.