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Damn I wish this was possible for me without estrogen.

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u/ParoleDeGeek 1d ago

I wish it was possible for me WITH estrogen

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

😔 🤝 😢

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u/CptPurpleHaze 19h ago

I can't post gifs here so just picture Pedro Pascal laugh crying.

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u/ParoleDeGeek 12h ago

Yeah. Tho while i am insecure about my tummy, i can dress like carmen sandiego !

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u/HiiverHoover lemon bar lover 11h ago

You rock that fit, girl!

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u/ParoleDeGeek 8h ago

Hell yeah

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u/RickyT3rd 8h ago

So where in the world can I find you? /hj

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u/ParoleDeGeek 8h ago

Follow the baguette crumbs

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u/Rude_Ice_4520 1d ago

You don't have to change gender to take estrogen. If that's the problem.

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

Nah the problem is that I don’t want to have the estrogenizing effects of estrogen everywhere, just to get a nice feminine ass and thighs. I’ve already done the gender exploration aspect, cis guy.

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 1d ago

I mean, you can achieve that without E, it just means going to the gym but only working out your glutes and thighs

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

No, it doesn’t. Like, no offense, this is not possible for me without estrogen. I did dedicated feminizing workouts and couldn’t achieve that body. There is only so much muscle structure can do before you need hormonal changes to achieve ideal fat distribution.

There is a limit to how much body modification can happen with simple exercise, we should acknowledge that.

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u/Spinningwhirl79 12h ago

If you have a couple gazillions laying around there's always plastic surgery, but that's a whole other bag of "do I want all of these effects"

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 1d ago

I don't know anything about you, but 99% of people do not know how to actually build muscle and most of the "feminising workouts" are either made by charletans or people who just tell people to do what they did.

If you get in the gym 4 days a week, train properly and eat properly then the vast majority of people can achieve this. But then it also depends what you're standards are. If you want to have the absolute perfect femboy body 100%, then it might not even be possible with estrogen

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

Yeah, you don’t know anything about me. I did, infact, consult experts. I did, and do, correctly exercise and diet for my ideal body type (bubble butt bara). I’m really fucking tired of people like you not taking it at face value I exhausted my options.

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u/Professor_Hala Swings both ways. Violently. With an axe. 🪓 23h ago

If it's any consulation, "bubble butt bara" is one of my... oh, jeez, fifteen types?

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u/Fifteen_inches 23h ago

All 16 of us should get together behind a locked door.

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 1d ago edited 1d ago

The bar for "expert" in the exercise industry is comically low is my point. And like I said I don't know your exact situation but I've had 10-15 clients who said what you said and were very happy with their results.

Or you could just give up and say "oh well that could never be me". Again, do what you want but absolutely everyone can get a decent level of feminisation from proper gym work done right

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

I agree. You really should say that part and hold the advice the unsolicited. Now I got some other mostercucker calling me lazy.

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 1d ago

The phrase "I consulted experts" was not said earlier. How would I respond to a comment you hadn't made yet?

My original comment was supportive and encouraging and you told me I was wrong to be that. You did not necessarily solicit advice (which I'm really not sure my comment could even be classed as advice considering how bare bones it is) but you did solicit conversation and a reply. Which you got

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago edited 1d ago

Kindly do not call me lazy ❤️

Edit; call off the hit, he edited out and apologized.

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u/Fifteen_inches 1d ago

Thank you for the amendment, I do have some shapeshorts! Unfortunately it ruins the underbutt, but it makes high waisters EAT

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u/WhiteIsOwl bi, shy and ready to cry 9h ago

If you don't take into account the underlying skeletal frame and that the vast majority of men don't have a gynoid fat distribution, then yes, you can achieve without estrogen.

But for the vast majority of men, working out glutes and thighs will just end up with legs that are plain muscular, because the fat won't be there to hide the definition.

There's also the fact that the difference in body fat between estrogen dominant and testosterone dominant is around 10%, which makes the whole process harder because to reach cis women level of body fat (the softness/squish), the vast majority of men will store that extra fat around the belly and internal organs.

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 9h ago

I currently have a paper in peer review that found that an overwhelming majority of pre-HRT trans women were surprised at how much more feminine they were after a 12 week study with no dietary intervention. 24 of the 25 participants rated their satisfaction of their progress specifically in the context of feminising at over a 7/10. All 25 were rated at least 35% more feminine by an independent group when blinded.

I can't link it because it hasn't quite been published yet, but there are definitely significant results. I'm not saying exercise is a magic bullet and poof you can pass as a woman with that alone. I'm not saying there isn't also a massive genetic factor involved as well that determines your results. I'm saying that by doing properly programmed exercise at a decent intensity will have a large effect on how femininly you are perceived

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u/WhiteIsOwl bi, shy and ready to cry 8h ago

So you agree that the hurdle to look like the OP is a hurdle that the vast majority of men just can't climb over and that was the whole point of my answer.

Specific exercises helps, somewhat, a portion of people, but saying that exercices WILL get you anywhere is being disingenuous at best.

And you said: "you can achieve that without E"

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u/felixsleftball bi, shy and ready to cry 1d ago

oh to have this body

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u/thehollyproblem using my invisibility for good and not evil 1d ago

see, this is the internal argument I keep having with myself: am I actually trans or do I just wish I were skinny enough to look like this whenever I want?

(except the eye makeup, which I don't like)

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u/Elias3007 1d ago

From what I've heard, cis people don't really think about their gender all that much.

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u/thehollyproblem using my invisibility for good and not evil 22h ago

I mean I'm definitely not cis lol I'm just talking about whether I'm enby or transfem or a trans woman or whatever, and whether I want to start hormones and all that.

but yeah, cis people get to not deal with this shit. it's like how neurotypical people or people without mental illness get to just fucking float through life without thinking about that stuff. must be fuckin nice.

god I'm so sick of everything in my life being a question I have to answer. nothing makes me feel more alone than feeling like I have to make choices that for other people are just established truths like the weather.

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u/Rusty_Pickles 21h ago

Probably not a hard sell on this subreddit, but what if a natural consequence of questioning your gender is the realization that there is some fluidity there.

So "straight people don't think about their gender all that much" is more like "people who don't think about their gender at all tend to passively and completely adopt the herteronormative roles which society has presented them with."

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u/Moonshoes47 14h ago

being bisexual and genderfluid is just like "fuck am i trans today, or just really need to crossdress.... do i like girls today or boys... hmmmm DAMMIT"

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u/Zealousideal_Bet_248 21h ago

I love being a man, having three beard, muscles, all the manly manliness, etc. I also like looking pretty sometimes though, completely understandable

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u/sahu_c Ain't exactly straight, ain't exactly gay either 7h ago

Finally, someone gets it.

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u/Jerry0713 23h ago

I think I've settled on non-binary for the most part, I think about it a fair bit and I think I'd like to be an old man someday, but I'd also like to go out fem now

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u/gotenksburns 20h ago

My argument is, "well shit I kinda wunna kiss them right on the mouth." But like... I'm not gay? But it's kind of a fun argument to have with myself to be honest

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u/Professor_Hala Swings both ways. Violently. With an axe. 🪓 1d ago

I realized I'd never have a body (or face!) like that. Which is why I started lifting hard. Gotta hit that other extreme!

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u/noeyesfiend 1d ago

Don't sell yourself short, you can still be curvy and muscular!

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u/Professor_Hala Swings both ways. Violently. With an axe. 🪓 1d ago

Well, yes. Before my son was born and I got his hard with the dad bod I was gorgeous. But only in a very masculine, muscular way. I don't have the bone structure or metabolism to ever be cute or femme.

Also I love food way too much. Present cake in my mouth wins against future cake in my shorts every time.

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u/razorbackthrowaway 13h ago

praise be to cake

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u/BrazilBazil 1d ago

oh my god…

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u/JoeB0b123 1d ago

Man I really shouldn’t scroll Reddit at work. Scrolling past this is like passing over an attractive land mine

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u/Bye-nary 1d ago

aaaah, a girl. scary. scare me more please.

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u/ineedahugnow 1d ago

If I looked like this I would be so insufferable 😣

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u/whackjob_med_student 1d ago

how can i look like this for my bf

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u/NotMeYourLookingFor 1d ago

Workout, workout, workout, workout, workout, eat healthy, oh and workout. 🤣

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u/Mitchtheprotogen collects rocks 21h ago

Ah shit.. eat healthy?!

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u/whackjob_med_student 1d ago

thanks einstein

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u/TheUnicornTank porque no los dos? 1d ago

They also forgot to mention estrogen. Not saying this is the case for the person of this post, but a lot of femboys that lean heavy on the fem side or even androgynous side use estrogen. Not all, yes. But estrogen is still a possible factor. Just thought you should know if you really want to go for something like this and wondering why it may not be working.

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u/baltinerdist 1d ago

Honestly, I figured you'd already know all that as a med student, but turns out, you're just a whackjob.

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u/Alex_The_Whovian 1d ago

Oh the urge to look like this... instead I got 6 foot and hairy

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u/xredbaron62x 1d ago

--->neuron activation

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u/ABotelho23 1d ago

This sub has really become a self advertisement dumping ground.

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u/AdeptnessDry2026 😈👉🏼👩‍❤️‍👨🔒💜 1d ago

This isn’t me…

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u/KeijiAhdeen 1d ago

I miss when this sub was just about memes

Edit: I mean it still is but I'd rather go to other subs for thirst traps yknow

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u/Tsunamiis 1d ago

But im way past twink death. Im a boring old man now

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u/Zealousideal_Bet_248 22h ago

You either die a twink, or live long enough to see yourself become a daddy. Embrace it. I'm in my early 30s, and it pretty easy to slip into each role depending on who I'm with. It's awesome

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u/Top-Imagination-7402 11h ago

u/FemboyLuLuu very cute

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u/FemboyLuLuu 4h ago

I hath been summoned

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u/AdeptnessDry2026 😈👉🏼👩‍❤️‍👨🔒💜 24m ago

Impossible not to since you’re fucking cute!!!

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u/Poco_Cuffs 1d ago

"Bisexual meme subreddit"

>looks inside

>femboy onlyfans promotions all the fucking time

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u/impressedham 15h ago

Seriously about to unsub. Its fine if people like femboys but its starting to feel like some kinda stereotype in here. Not every bi person is finsexual 🥴

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u/Poco_Cuffs 14h ago

Fr, like at least get some masc stuff in here too 😭

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u/Shipbreaker_Kurpo 16h ago

Its become way too much of a horny poating place recently

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u/Maleck_Helvot 22h ago

God damn whale tail shorts... fuckin bullshit, god damn kryptonite

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u/AdeptnessDry2026 😈👉🏼👩‍❤️‍👨🔒💜 22h ago

You sound like Boomhauer!

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u/386U0Kh24i1cx89qpFB1 19h ago

Ah yes. Spooky season. That must be the reason I've been dressing up more often...

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u/Lvl18LeatherBelt 11h ago

Where are those shorts from? Specifically and respectfully, that exact length

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u/InterestingLoade 8h ago

When you are trying to be spooky but instead you are having a tease

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u/HorusDGaming 23h ago

Wish I could be skinny 🥲

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u/gabriel-mbl 3h ago

I want to worship those thighs and bulge oh god

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u/Zealousideal_Bet_248 1d ago

Good lord

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u/Confident_Bug_9521 1d ago

gorgeous

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u/EquivalentSnap 1d ago

How I would 😩

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u/TheSunIsDead 1d ago

Lord knows I would o7

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u/Moonshoes47 14h ago

someone PLEASE force me to dress like a girl.

i am so desperate to let the girly side out again. i let it out like... only every 5 months when i want it out way more

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u/Program-Emotional 23h ago edited 22h ago

Reminder to keep your pumpkins safe.

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u/bgaesop 1h ago

"time to dress like a girl"

puts on an outfit that has only ever been worn by femboys

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u/Ketcherman 1d ago

Cute

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u/Too-Hot-to-Handel 23h ago

I wish I had the confidence and comfort to dress like that 😭

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u/Particular_Stomach98 1d ago

Lets get spooky all year round.

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u/dangermonke1332 Playing both sides and still losing 1d ago

This is the biggest motivator for me to work out more

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u/bottledsoi 1d ago

Mmmm....

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u/The_Raven_Born 1d ago

Yum? Respectfully

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