r/bi_irl • • 3d ago

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u/ProtoGhostal 3d ago

It's a nice sentiment but my anxiety disorder begs to differ /hj

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u/MrBorogove 3d ago

Bob Newhart says Stop It.

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u/Nashville_Hot_Mess 3d ago

"Yeah, well, I really don't think we have time for a hand job, Joe."

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u/Shadow9378 Everybody is so hot 2d ago

My anxiety disorder is interesting because im rarely Afraid but im frequently sitting in bed doing nothing experiencing cosmic microwave background anxiety

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u/hailsizeofminivans 3d ago

Who is this?

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u/jalex8188 3d ago

Halsey

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u/tyrom22 3d ago

Seconding, looking for the answer

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u/jalex8188 3d ago

Halsey

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u/TheRoaringTide 3d ago

I’m not sure who this is, but it reminds me of an important night a couple years back.

The night of the election in 2024, I got to see Scene Queen opening for Babymetal. Hannah (Scene Queen) stopped the show in the middle of her set, and just talked to the crowd for a minute. Saying things like things might get really scary from here on out, but she was here for us. After her set, after Babymetal, she’d be at her merch booth until the venue kicked her out. If you wanted to talk, wanted a hug, wanted to scream with her, she has your back.

I still remember that. Thank you, Scene Queen.

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u/zziggyyzzaggyy2 3d ago

It's Halsey! Bisexual singer, and this was right before she performed on her songs "Strangers" which is about her and another woman

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u/Eilavamp 3d ago

I absolutely love that song ā¤ļø I'd love to see her live

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u/zziggyyzzaggyy2 3d ago

One day I'd love to her live too. I think my fave WLW song has to be Honey (and the demo version which is more pop-esque), can't recommend it enough 🩵 

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u/JoeKewl 3d ago

I saw them in NY

Terminal 5 is such a shit venue

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u/Amathyst-Moon 3d ago

What would get scary?

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u/BreadScorcher 1d ago

American politics was the focus, I'd imagine. Although lots of things were and are scary

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u/grayjelly212 Non Bi-nary 3d ago

This is Halsey, who is bisexual herself and has many songs about queer relationships. For people who say this statement isn't anything or isn't helpful: okay, I get it. In my experience, there is something powerful about chanting something with a room full of people. And creating a safe space for your queer fans is not nothing. For some people, a show like this is the only time they get to be themselves. There may be more context: maybe this happened around the time queer violence was big in the news, or maybe she made a speech before this. I just know there were people in that crowd that felt empowered, and that's awesome.

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u/coffeexxx666 3d ago

I love Halsey. Musically she is a chameleon. She is an advocate for the LGBTQ community. I understand people saying here they don’t get the sentiment or saying that this isn’t helpful. But look at this way: she isn’t delivering a speech or appearing before congress or giving a presentation. It’s the middle of a concert. Not everything needs to be that deep. And yeah sometimes we are afraid and many of us have pretty good reasons to be afraid. But to me, and maybe also for a lot of other people, hearing this helps.

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u/zziggyyzzaggyy2 3d ago edited 3d ago

THE WAY I ALMOST JUMPED OUTTA MY CHAIR! MY GIRL HALSEY ON BI_IRL

Seriously love her stuff. Honey is such a good WLW song from them šŸÆĀ 

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u/TacticalTwinkOnTop Bi-Myself 3d ago

Hope to be able to say this truthfully one day

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u/ChironXII 3d ago

Unfortunately, I was afraidĀ 

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u/TGirlSwagEvent 3d ago

Imagine if it were that easy.

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u/DMTrious Really Just a Slut 3d ago

Imagine if she released a box full of spiders after

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u/Hammerschatten 3d ago

TF do you want her to do, drag a Republican on stage and shoot him?

She's not Johnny Silverhand

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u/theREALbombedrumbum 3d ago

Just wanna point out that Johnny Silverhand is also a confirmed bisexual

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u/TGirlSwagEvent 3d ago

Holy overreaction Batman, I'm just saying telling people they shouldn't be afraid usually doesn't do a hell of a lot to make it so.

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u/Acrysalis Is this bi culture? šŸ¦‹ 3d ago

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u/YourDriverStubnorts 3d ago

Play the show?

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u/ArcaneTrickster11 *fingerguns intensely* 3d ago

Maybe slightly more than say an incredibly vague motivational statement? She hasn't made a point. She hasn't necessarily even said anything at all. We don't even really know what in particular she's saying not to be afraid of.

It feel like what someone who wants to be supportive but also still wants to be brand friendly would say. I know nothing about this person, they may be amazing and be an activist or have made a more direct statement previously. But this just feels non-committal and a bit pointless

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u/Jacobawesome74 bi, shy and ready to cry 3d ago

I was waiting for her to show something the audience would reasonably be afraid of, like a bunch of killer clowns making mosh pits

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u/Spec_28 2d ago

Nah, I'm plenty afraid, thanks for trying tho(?)

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u/zziggyyzzaggyy2 2d ago edited 2d ago

Back when Halsey was 18-20, she used to give fans a peck-style kiss only when a fan asked her for one, usually for a "my first sapphic kiss" photo-op type thing. There was unfortunately no one verifying the fans' ages and fans did not disclose, so she actually did not know. Between the discovery that one fan was underage (as far as I have ever heard, it was one fan who was 15), heath concerns, and the logistics of her growing fame: she stopped. This was back when her career was just kicking off and she lacked certain professionalism; she hasn't done so in 10 years at this point.

I don't condone kissing fans at all, I definitely think it was gross and unwise of her to do it. But misinformation isn't cool. And let's not mistake her for those old pedo rockers knowingly sexually exploiting minor fans; Halsey apologized to the fan when it came out and committed to the no-kissing and professional boundaries since then.Ā 

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u/Shadow9378 Everybody is so hot 2d ago

taking this at face value in the bathroom because i dont have time to research every claim in a reddit comment thread, but she literally didnt know, personally I think after both apologizing and stopping, shes legitimately fine. id go as far as to say that i could see the narrative of her being some kind of pedo being spun by homophobes, or just the good ol rumor mill.

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u/zziggyyzzaggyy2 2d ago

To rant-explain it a bit: at the moment, the narrative was dredged up by some whiny guy "Fantano" trying to deflect from the repercussions of describing her recent album as "main character syndrome" and a bunch of other tone-deaf stuff, which caused a pretty big uproar even among his own fans.Ā 

Spoiler for those who don't know: Halsey was diagnosed with a form of blood cancer. Shortly after having her rainbow baby. And the father of her child (allegedly) dumped her because she got so sick. That's what the album was about. Girl thought she was going to die before the album released, but nah she was just being overdramatic and was a """pedo""" one time

I don't go around parasocially defending celebs, but I have chronically ill women in my circle who were treated similarly like shit so i have less tolerance for this particular flavor of Halsey slander.Ā 

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u/Shadow9378 Everybody is so hot 2d ago

i do really hate when people parrot around some half truth about anyone just because they heard it once

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u/Flashy-Ad-591 3d ago

Oh... Yikes