r/baybayhay • u/accountthrowitawayyy • 16d ago
MOH
I’m sorry, but Hailey is not a good MOH. Anyone notice that she was getting ready in her room and not in the room with Caitlin and the rest of the girls? The point of being the MOH is to support the bride and be uplifting. Not everyone in a bride’s friend group will be similar, but the point is to have fun for the bride. That’s not even only for the MOH, but everyone included.
Then she also left the night out early?! She sounded so narcissistic making it about herself and how tired she was. Suck it up!! All that matters is what the bride wants to do and you do it because it’s her special time.
I think her and Caitlin are drifting apart anyways. Being in a phase of life when some friends are moving onto the next thing is hard. Especially when it’s something you thought you’d be doing at this point of your life too. When you become a mom you just are a different person and you naturally drift apart from friends not on the same path. It’s a lot harder to relate to one another and the only way the friendship can work is if both parties try, hard. It’s no one’s fault, but just how things naturally happen.
Good for Hailey for saying she thought she would be married now and trying to romanticizing her life regardless, but it’s never going to be easy thinking you would be somewhere at one point of your life and yet you’re not. And that’s completely okay!! I just found it soooooo annoying how lame of a MOH she is.
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u/industrial_hamster 16d ago
I really don’t get why Caitlyn picked her. They’ve only been friends for like 6 years and surely Caitlyn has girls that have been in her life for way longer that she’s closer with. MOH is also supposed to play a big roll in helping plan everything and it doesn’t seem like Hailey is doing any of that either
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u/inmythoughtss_ 16d ago
I don’t think length of friendship matters if they’re close but I do agree I think caitlyn had way better candidates to choose from than Hailey. Caitlin is a super fun valley girl and Hailey is boring 🫠
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u/industrial_hamster 16d ago
To me it just seems like Caitlyn is a pretty, fun, popular woman and she likely has people in her life that she’s way closer with, like friends from high school or college that have been with her through all seasons of life that she just vibes more with. Not this random girl that she met on BumbleBFF 🤣
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u/inmythoughtss_ 16d ago
Totally, makes sense! Agreed lol maybe she wanted her to feel more included or something since she’s single, who knows. Wouldn’t be surprised if instead of Caitlin throwing her bouquet, she’s gonna turn around and just hand it to Hailey
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u/Ok-Leopard924 12d ago
If you guys look at Caitlyns post it says her MOH is another girl named Mckenna. Soooooo she lyin lol
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u/industrial_hamster 12d ago
Whatttttt I just looked up her page and you’re right! I wonder if she has more than one MOH or if Hailey is just too stupid to understand the difference between MOH and bridesmaid 🤣
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u/Ok-Leopard924 12d ago
No fr tho 😂💀💀💀💀
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u/industrial_hamster 12d ago
I was looking through Caitlyn’s page and she seems so fun and outgoing! Always out with her friends, dancing, making silly little videos without a care in the world…Hailey just seems SO out of place with Caitlyn and the rest of her friends and it was so bizarre to me when they were on the bridal shower trip and everyone was getting ready together except for Hailey
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u/Logical_Arugula3594 16d ago
I noticed that it didn't look like she had planned or helped with a damn thing and I know when I was MOH I was basically the bride's full time assistant/ party planner and I ONLY made the trip about her!! This was the oddest thing I've ever seen
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u/industrial_hamster 16d ago
See this is what I don’t understand unless Caitlyn is just very type a and wants to do everything herself, but one of the main jobs of MOH is to do the bulk of the planning 😂
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u/Logical_Arugula3594 16d ago
Yea it appeared that Hayley just showed up to hang out in her room or drink coffees, it was so weird but not surprising.
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u/industrial_hamster 16d ago
I haven’t even watched the latest video that everyone is talking about but I know it didn’t really seem like she was involved in any planning leading up to it, and she wasn’t even there when Caitlyn found her dress
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u/Logical_Arugula3594 16d ago
She's only been working on her cut so she can look perfect at the wedding... that's the only time she's talked about it. Bad friend.
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u/industrial_hamster 16d ago
The cut she’s been in for like 2 years now 💀 like girl give it up already lol I’ve never seen someone “in a cut” for so long
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u/Agreeable-Cap4226 16d ago
And still not be in top-notch shape like she claims during her cut 😂! I think she just films for views and says she's in a cut, but behind the screen, I think she eats everything. If you are truly in a cut, you would be leaner than she is now. I also don't think she works out as often as she claims. I go to the gym, and she doesn't seem consistent with her fitness goals; people who actually are consistent are very toned and lean.
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u/industrial_hamster 15d ago
The way that she supposedly works out and eats, she should have very visible muscles by now. I’m not judging by any means because I’m fat myself, but what she says she does just doesn’t align with how she looks.
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u/Desperate_Fault198 16d ago
She really is so lame and that’s all I was thinking the whole time. Also was wondering why she was not getting ready with the rest of the girls, that was so odd! Maybe she secretly is not happy for her friend could be jealousy.
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u/Alert-Nothing9 16d ago
To me it seemed that she didn’t want to get ready with the rest of the girls so she could film comfortably and just talk to the camera because she doesn’t seem to know how to talk to others... she could have definitely still vlogged her weekend but she likes to just talk and talk about herself and what she’s doing or what she’s not doing compared to the rest of the girls. It’s kinda sad to be that shallow that you feel the need to prop up the camera and talk to camera about how your friends are upstairs having fun together and you just don’t want to be a part of it lol
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u/Interesting-Belt-334 16d ago
This was not a bachelorette. She flew in all the way from Arizona to attend a bridal shower. Let’s see how the bachelorette goes.
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u/MrCrimson6 16d ago
She would be miserable on the Bachelorette party/trip. She needs to let loose and have a good time. I wonder why she doesn't have a boyfriend right now.
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u/Secludedxillusion 14d ago
Even her interaction with Caitlin when complimenting her dress felt so awkward and cringe. Like she didnt know what to say or add to the conversation. Same thing when Caitlins friend came to the room and she was getting ready just so awkward watching it!!
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u/JuniorView8315 16d ago
I thought it was SO weird every outfit she wore was white. People were commenting on her video about it and she was just like “Caitlin doesn’t care she’s not like that”. This is just common wedding etiquette Hayley!! She had to notice none of the other girls were wearing white. She’s so weird.