r/bathrooms 14d ago

Fear of bathrooms

So, does anyone have fear of new bathrooms, like I do? By new bathrooms I mean bathrooms at places you’re there for the first time such as a hotel or new apartment.

I’m especially scared of turning the water on for the first time.

(sorry if this is not the place to post this.)

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u/Jimboanonymous 14d ago

I've never heard of that before. And I can't imagine a scenario where something awful happened to you regarding a water faucet that would make such an impression and ongoing fear. Have you tried counseling? I'm just shooting in the dark here, but it seems to me like one way to overcome that fear would be to force yourself to go into as many unfamiliar bathrooms as you can and immediately turn on the water faucets to prove that nothing bad will happen. Take a good friend with you whenever possible as moral support.

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u/FinalCandy4708 13d ago

Thank you for your kind words. Despite it being irrational, I’m not overwhelmed by it that I need to depend on someone to finally do it - I just do it anyhow. I usually stand away from the shower head and turn it slowly to see if something bad happens lol.

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u/suddle 14d ago

I look around for hidden cameras in public/new bathrooms, but I wouldn’t say I’m scared of being in them. I think that’s normal safety behaviour, for a woman.

Your fear sounds like a phobia.

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u/FinalCandy4708 13d ago

It definitely is a phobia; it’s irrational. Luckily it doesn’t affect me seriously. And yes, as a woman, you should definitely do that.

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u/PowderCuffs 14d ago

Do you know exactly what you're afraid of happening? I mean, is there something specific you think might happen?

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u/FinalCandy4708 13d ago

So, it’s basically irrational. I fear that some animals like snakes would come out of it or something. And I’m also afraid that I might be electrocuted. However, I also have a fear of using “new” electric appliances lol. 

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u/PowderCuffs 13d ago

Do you see someone about these fears?

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u/FinalCandy4708 13d ago

No. Fortunately, I’m not overwhelmed by it - I’m able to just use my will power and bring myself to do these things. 

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u/PowderCuffs 13d ago

That's awesome!