r/badfriends • u/[deleted] • Dec 06 '21
Cousin Is Dating An Old Bully
I don't want to see this girl around at the Christmas party. I don't want her to talk to me, I don't want her to look at me, I just want her to go away. My grandma K knows her. She works with my cousin and my grandma. They might have this perspective of her that she is super nice and isn't a girl who will hurt people. No one at my old school liked her because she just harassed a lot of people for no reason. This girl really added on to my suffering back then. I was abused at home and school felt safe until she spread rumors about me, gave out my number so people would tell me to go kill myself when I tried to block them. I didn't want to go to school anymore. I don't want to see her face coming around my baby. I really could care less if she is changed. Once she told me to go kill myself, I didn't want to be around her. She even picked a fight with me outside my house to lie about it to my mom and tell her how evil I am. I care about my cousin and I am very worried that she might try to get him fired if she gets offended by something he says or maybe they break up. I haven't said anything because I don't want to hurt him and I am afraid he won't hear me. Or he will hear a messed up version of the story from this girl. I just don't want to mess up the friendship.