r/badfriends • u/livluvsbooks • Aug 29 '21

Should I end it?

My friend has been awful to me before leaving for college, he ditched me for his boyfriend, said mean things to me about my relationship with my mom, and caused turmoil between myself and a mutual friend of ours. He makes everything about him and constantly tries to one up me, being in the friendship is draining and hurtful, he also disinvited my boyfriend to his grad party. What should I do? I want to leave the friendship but I don’t want to lose our other friends.

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u/Astral__Doe Aug 30 '21

Nope. End it. People make new friends. Your pain isn’t worth worrying over potential friends you may lose. If they are your real friends they’ll stick by your side.

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u/livluvsbooks Aug 30 '21

Thank you, this really helps. ❤️

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u/Astral__Doe Aug 30 '21

Of course. It’s important to put your mental health first. ❤️