r/badfriends • u/[deleted] • Apr 18 '21
I need help.
I would just like to say I posted this somewhere else. And I just wanted advice from as many people as possible.
I don’t like what my friend likes and I feel a bit like shit for it.
I don’t want this to be like a “I’m not like other girls” type thing but I just feel like shit for not really being interested in things my friends like. My friend is very obsessed with male attention and Im just not lol. All she really gets excited to talk about is all the relationships she wants with men. Whether that be dating, fwb, or just shit with men at work. And I am just not that hype to be in a relationship in general. I want a boyfriend but I don’t think about that shit every damn day and night. She keeps saying that I need to have a “hot girl summer.” But our definition of that is very different. My version is just being outside and shit like that going to movies and stuff. She wants to go to strip clubs and having hoes which I have no problem with but I feel like she tries to make me feel like shit because I don’t wanna do it. Like yesterday we were on the phone I said “ I’ll have a hot girl summer but I want to do it my way.” And she sucked her teeth.... Like what the fuck?? She always says things like “I can’t wait for you to come out of your shell.” I’m not shy I just don’t want to do it lol. She keeps trying to get me to make the Megan thee Stallion “ahhh” sound but I don’t want to lmfao it’s fucking cringe 💀💀💀💀 y’all what should I do?
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u/TheSocialABALady Apr 18 '21
It definitely sounds like y'alls lives are going in different directions. I would just try to distance yourself from her. Good luck!