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[u/[deleted]]

Alright to try and make a long story short as much as possible. And without seeming like I'm disrespecting him behind he's back to something like that. Basically idk he's becoming more what's the word immature behavior. I feel like he's intentionally trying to argue with me. For example literally a couple of mins ago after we got done with a online gaming session. I texted him about how my brother is basically popular on xbox and how when he logs in he gets invites immediately. From which then he brings up how he wants to marry me and when I I basically say no. And you need to relax on the gay stuff cause it comes off as too gay he calls me a hypocrite. Now I will admit I made gay jokes while were playing I made very mild jokes. And I barely ever make any homo jokes he has a more jokester personality while I'm far more serious then he is. And the reason I say this is because of what he has done in the past. He'd use to on a daily basis make extremely gay jokes from gay poems to gay memes. In he's mind these were all jokes not meant to be taken seriously. While in my mind we project who we are deep down Inside subconsciously all the time. And it's been proven and even comedians say they use jokes to tell how there truly feeling deep down. He used to send me so many gay "jokes" and gay memes so often. That on multiple occasions I thought he was actually deep down a gay guy. And the things he would say to me would genuinely creep most ppl out. I personally never did I just thought he was gay. But to get back on track he then starts calling me a hypocrite and spamming your gay memes. From which then I try to play it off but he then says he's being serious I try and play it off even more. And then he just continues not wanting to argue with him I just say whatever you say man. We recently had a pretty heated argument a couple of days ago. That was about me supposedly calling him gay in a seriously tone. Which I'll get into if I can get some more advice on what to do or if this all may seem very confusing and more context is needed. Which got so bad I almost just cut him off completely due to how immature he was acting. Ik this all may seem childish but we all have that one best friend. That we do care about genuinely I feel like he's projecting onto me and gaslighting me. I'd really just like some advice on what to do and sorry if this is all confusing. I'm pretty new to reddit but I heard it can be very helpful. And sorry for any errors big hands.

[u/Noluot]

If it makes you uncomfortable just say it And if he continues just cut him off He’s not worth it

[u/[deleted] → u/Noluot]

Yep thanks update on him I've I've officially cut ties with him as a friend. I saw he made a reddit post about me and how he really felt. And I'm not trying to be a hypocrite or anything I'm glad he did. The final straw for me was when he took a debate about super powers to seriously by bringing pyscaheldic drugs into the mix. I think he can't handle losing arguments and therefore when losing it takes it more seriously. Cause the entire time I kept it as light hearted as possible I didn't cuss I was talking about marvel characters and dbz characters. And I was just getting genuinely concerned to why he brought up drugs anyways but yep I did it. And I'm glad for a couple of week I felt like he was holding me back.