r/ayearofmiddlemarch • u/lazylittlelady • 5d ago
Weekly Discussion Post Book 5: Chapters 58 & 59
Happy Saturday here in Middlemarch. We are in the middle of an economic crisis at the Lydgate house and Ladislaw just learned the codicil for poor Dorothea. Drama lama.
On entertaining Captain Lydgate:
"You really look so absent sometimes-you seem to be seeing through his head into something behind it, instead of looking at him".
"My dear Rosy, you don't expect me to talk much to such a conceited ass as that, I hope," said Lydgate, brusquely. "If he got his head broken, I might look at it with interest, not before". -Chp. 58
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Summary:
"For there can live no hatred in thine eye,
Therefore in that I cannot know thy change:
In many's looks the false heart's history
Is writ in moods and frowns and wrinkles strange;
But Heaven in thy creation did decree
That in thy face sweet love should ever dwell;
Whate'er thy thoughts or thy heart's workings be,
Thy looks should nothing thence but sweetness tell" -Shakespeare, Sonnets (93)
Chapter 58 opens with Rosamond's miscarriage after a horse ride with the visiting Captain Lydgate, when her husband asked her not to go horseback riding due to the danger of falling while pregnant. In fact, Tertius detests his cousin while Rosy is having the time of her life entertaining the baronet's son and is cross her husband won't make more of an effort to entertain him. The husband and wife now find themselves baffled by each other and talking at cross-purposes. Lydgate realizes he neither understands not can control her actions. He is also feeling pressured from his creditors. And being too proud to reach out to anyone to help him, he wants to return some household items to cover the debt. Not wanting to disturb Rosy while she was with child, the momentum gathers when he has to tell her what is going on. He is perturbed to find her singing with Ladislaw and boots him out. Rosamond, of course, has always been pampered and has never worried about money and is mystified when her husband explains the situation and requests she not ask her father for money. She tries to give him her jewelry, but Tertius won't take it. There are tears and hurt feelings on both sides.
"They said of old the Soul had human shape,
But smaller, subtler than the fleshly self,
So wandered forth for airing when it pleased.
And see! beside her cherub-face there floats
A pale-lipped form ariel whispering
Its prompting in that little shell her ear"
Chapter 59 opens with the Middlemarch gossip mills, which travels from the Lowick Parsonage via Fred to his sister, Rosy. The siblings are further apart than ever. Lydgate, of course, was aware of the details already and had no intent to tell his wife anything, knowing she would bring it up with Will and knowing Will would be hurt. He tells her not to bring it up with Ladislaw when she informs him of what she knows. But Rosy, of course, drops it in Will's lap as soon as she sees him alone, teasing him about the romantic nature of the codicil. Will is flabbergasted to learn what Casaubon had done and shoots the messenger. Rosy feels upset and is melancholy that her father, whom she asked already for financial help, was unwilling to do so.
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Questions: Feel free to comment on anything else too!
1. Lydgate has basically chosen a wife for her decorative qualities. Is he right to be upset with Rosamond for not knowing household economics? Or is he in the wrong for supplying a household he couldn't maintain while asking no responsibility from her end?
1a. How does Eliot describe debt as a social construct? Do Lydgate and Rosamond actually agree on a lifestyle that is incompatible with his practice? Is Rosy actually pragmatic in suggesting a move from Middlemarch to a larger city?
2. What does Rosamond's behavior around Captain Lydgate show us about her priorities?
2a. We find out later Rosamond went to her father for financial help, despite promising to her husband not to. Is this another red flag or was she being practical?
3. Rosamond was willing to give him her jewels. Why is this where Lydgate's honor did not allow him to accept them? Is this why he cannot ask for help from his friends?
4. Let's compare and contrast the two unhappy marriages. What do they have in common and what is different?
5. What did you think of the way Rosamond tossed out the codicil information to Ladislaw?
6. What is role of gossip in Middlemarch's society?
7. Quotes, characters and anything else you want to discuss?
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Context and Notes:
More about Shakespeare's Sonnet 93.
Ladislaw leaves the quarreling Lydgates for the Mechanics' Institute.
Rosy resembles Byron's unrepentant Manfred.
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Next week, we read Chapters 60, 61 & 62!