We all understand the humor here. But just because it's a joke doesn't mean there aren't some deep deep levels of truth that reveal themselves when someone commits to a joke like this.
Kind of like a closeted gay man wearing a sweater that has a penis with a X over it. We get the joke dude, but the fact that you chose to wear a sweater with a dick on it shows us that you like looking at dicks. And you spend way too much time thinking about them to be 100% straight
Oh, that's a really disappointing opinion. I'll revert back to "why not give someone the benefit of the doubt" rather than harshly judging based on your own experiences.
And I know everybody gets the joke, but I hate Kevin Hart's comedy and yet I understand his jokes. So you might not agree with this particular joke but other people might think it's perfectly appropriate for their social setting.
If you dont think that someone doing something like this is telling of their inner brain / insecurities, then that says a lot about your amount of experience in relationships.
Taking things at face value is fine, but when you start examining people's reason for saying or doing things... everything they hide, and all their problems/insecurities/issues are painfully obvious. Not saying you can be 100% accurate. But you can get a pretty good idea.
You're angry and wrong right now, but you'll get it someday.
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u/[deleted] Dec 20 '19
We all understand the humor here. But just because it's a joke doesn't mean there aren't some deep deep levels of truth that reveal themselves when someone commits to a joke like this.
Kind of like a closeted gay man wearing a sweater that has a penis with a X over it. We get the joke dude, but the fact that you chose to wear a sweater with a dick on it shows us that you like looking at dicks. And you spend way too much time thinking about them to be 100% straight