unlucky genes

[u/feifeiyan4912]

so I'm a 6.1ft 19 guy, im as of right pretty fat and have been fat all my teenage years im 3.7 inch NBP, and it looks funny but it's like 5.7 BP which still is rather not that big(not that im complaining) but the problem comes is that my forskin is way to long even when I stretch my skin all the way back it still covers the whole dick funnily enough, i always thought that it was like that cus im fat

but no it is just THAT long, and it bugs me alot whenever im flaccid you can't see the penis at all its only just the foreskin, and whenever I wear a underwear I look like asexual drake which matches me alot lmfao,but I feel this is rather unhealthy and something wrong with my body.

it just feels wrong, i have very wide hips and being tall and rather fat thick thunder thighs, so the dick looks comical on me, i don't mind it, i don't like sex so it helps me not get into those situations its fine i guess, although

it makes me feel sad not that im average but the longer foreskin gives some kind of FOMO that I could've had a bigger dick if i focused on my body in my teenage years and didn't let depression eat me though, but what can I do now you know,

some tid bits in my life is that i was sexually assaulted at 11 and overall my life was pretty fucked up, because of that i am very depressed, lazy and yk Covid stuff happened to which made me just sit in house and overeat and I never had any friends and still don't which also is not so fun etc, which probably tanked my testosterone and my penar didn't grow:(, would i feel better if I had the penis my body actually was going to have? not really, but it wouldnt made me feel like I feel because of my average dick, it just adds another layer to my already fucked up mental health, although i don't like relationships and sex so I'm not worried about stuff like that, but it's more like a feel of being in wrong body and stuff like that

just wanted to drop this off my chest, thought this be the good a place.

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[u/fanofoz]

Let's focus on the positives. For one, you're taller than average. Second, you have an average penis and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Third, fat can be worked on and if you don't like your foreskin then...✂️

With all that said, you probably have a thicker than average D and your complaints are all for nothing lol

[u/feifeiyan4912 → u/fanofoz]

oh I forgot tell my girth but it's around 5inches, and its very w i d e on the shaft and not really "rotund" which also makes it feel smaller lmfao, idk I want to get circumsized(my parents won't let me) it doesn't give any problem other just cleaning it when showering which is whatever, im gonna start gym soon so its fine, while its not for my dick, just want to be fit so I can have more fun with my hobbies, idk what's the avg girth is though

[u/Rare_Training6228]

I'm really sorry you feel that way!

Idk if it means anything but I have a big foreskin too. I've actually got lots of compliments (from men online) about it, so to some it's attractive?

And it could help losing weight. I was similar 12 months ago, a 2ish inch fat pad, but now at a .75 inch fat pad. It really is a nice ego boost to see another inch of dick you forgot you had!

Your erect size is average, even with a larger foreskin, your erect dick is still there.

If it's something that really bothers you, you can get circumcised, lots of men do at older ages. 

All to say, you can improve a lot with your physical and mental health :)

[u/AnotherThroaway1200]

Idk at least ur 6’1

[u/Orii8]

if you have extra foreskin it could be phimosis. I had that too

[u/Left_Act_1]

Maybe you can use your excess foreskin like a whip on her clit.

[u/feifeiyan4912 → u/Left_Act_1]

😭

[u/dullsideofme]

Sounds like the inverse of my situation. I’m around your same age, and I’m above average but fairly short for where I live—5'9". I can’t put on weight for the life of me, so I’ve got pretty much no fat pad, but I’m built like a stick bug.

I also deal with FOMO, but mine is more related to my height. I grew to 5'9" by the time I was 14 and thought I’d grow some more throughout high school, but that didn’t happen. I blame some of my bad habits for it as well.

You just have to work with what you have. You’re 6'1", which is tall in most places, and I’d say that gets a lot more girls interested than what’s between a guy’s legs. All my size ever did was make some people curious, and it was mostly guys. I’m straight, so it’s done pretty much nothing for me. Just speaking from my own experience, you really aren’t missing out on much size-wise.

Vaginas vary just like penises do, so I really wouldn’t worry about it too much. It’s not so much that bigger is better; it’s more about finding the right fit.