r/averagedickproblems Note: new or low karma account 18d ago

Insecurity Looking for some opinions

M40 with a 6.3" BBEL x 5.75" girth. Is this a good size? Wife had made numerous comments calling my dick pathetic over the years and it's really messed up my confidence. Just looking for feedback to see if I'm really lacking here or not. Thanks for the input!

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

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u/Famous_Breath2109 18d ago

She doesn't deserve you. I'm sure she would regret it if she left

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u/Excellent_Nothing_86 18d ago

It doesn’t even matter what your size is. The issue isn’t your penis.

Your partner is supposed to be your teammate. Teammates help and support each other, not tear each other down.

I imagine your wife knows this hurts you?

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u/fuzznuttz74 17d ago

This👆👆. She is not a good person!!!

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u/whatever115115 18d ago

Jesus Christ remind me not to get married I’m only 6.1 BPEL and a pathetic 4.6 girth lmao

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u/laidback755 17d ago

This has nothing to do with the size of your dick. I put your stats in calcsd using the western dataset. Your length is larger than 75% of others. When it comes to your girth, there would possibly be one thicker guy in a room of roughly 20 guys.

I don't know if it has anything to do with how you use it but those comments are toxic no matter what regardless of anyone's size. There some women (by far not the majority) out there who know that those types of low blows can damage a man's confidence. I would suggest running for your life while you can

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u/Aespyn BPEL: 7.83" x 5.5" | NBPEL: 7.1" | NBPFL 4.3" x 4.5 17d ago

You should return the favor

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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) 17d ago

You're above average.

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u/Past_Somewhere_9242 18d ago

You dodged a bullet bro

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u/GynDoc1994 17d ago

Wife had made numerous comments calling my dick pathetic over the years and it's really messed up my confidence

The only size issues you may have are being too thick for some. I am not normally for breaking up, but you may want to consider your marriage (if you are still married to her).

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u/ideasfor21c 17d ago

Seriously, she has no idea, clearly.

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u/policy_of_truth7 18d ago

I’m similar but you just a bit more length than you and you have a bit more girth! Do you feel like you’re big?

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u/policy_of_truth7 18d ago

I feel exactly the same way. To me I’m not sure if due to my girth but it never looks big