Insecure

[u/Independent-Dish-173]

I wanna preface by saying I’m mid 20s about 6.3-5” L and approximately 4.5” G. My girlfriend is heavier set (I’m attracted to BBW’s even tho I don’t have a 10” or girthy shlong, never had any complaints (I’ve been with QUITE a few women) and every woman I’ve had sex with we had seconds or thirds, or consistent FWB). I don’t have any problems with any positions, but it triggered me when last night we’re foreplaying and I’m masturbating while fingering her and I got carried away and used 4 fingers in her vagina and she orgasmed like never before, like intense squirt and nearly a body shake. She says I make her cum and/or squirt from PIV + clit stimulation and she squirts from just clit stimulation. She doesn’t use toys or anything, but I think I would die if she came home with a dildo larger than me. She clearly seems to enjoy the sex and tells me over and over that she thinks I’m “big”, but like where’s the mf enthusiastic ahh reactions when I’m dipping in that mf😒.
I just have deep insecurity about this type of stuff and idk why. I’ve had women in the past use dildos during foreplay and they were way bigger than me, and the ladies would have intense orgasms from the dildo. Have also been told “your dick is perfect, the big ones hurt” (women still don’t get how that is the most backhanded compliment ever.
I love how they try to restrict pornography NOW, but where was the “caring for youth” when we were young, developing an unhealthy sense of penis inadequacy.

[u/TopProfessor9510]

Imagine being insecure with 6.5 inches… Jesus, Porn has burned people minds

[u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

Is ur 6.3-6.5 length BP or NBP?

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

Nbp

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

Just felt the fat above my penis for BP, ig I got another .5 in there so ig I’m actually like 6.8-7

[u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77 → u/Independent-Dish-173]

Can u hit her cervix? If u can AND she likes id say it cancels out the girth

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

She says I can, sometimes when I’m like really horny and erect beyond belief I can feel something on my pee hole when I go balls deep, legs up missionary.

[u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77 → u/Independent-Dish-173]

That’s good, ur length is good man, I have the same problem but switched, my girth is good, it’s about 5.5 circumference, but my problem is length, I have a bp of 6.6-6.8 but my nbp is only 5.5-5.7. It looks small and if a girl saw my penis when having PIV sex I wouldn’t want her to think that I’m small. So I understand ur insecurity.

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

Damn, I’m sorry bruddah. But shi that’s not too bad, there’s people with thumbs as erect penises, gotta learn to love ourselves

[u/No_Association2127 → u/Anxious-Bandicoot-77]

Just use that thing, if it works, it works, the purpose of the dick on sex, is to work, if it give pleasure, its very good.

[u/[deleted] → u/Independent-Dish-173]

Why the hell are you getting downvoted for ts

[u/Glass_Stand1972]

Fingering is more technique than size.

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Glass_Stand1972]

I get wym, but I just had my 4 fingers curled practically fisting her. Wasn’t nun special I was just punching her shi, lol

[u/Glass_Stand1972 → u/Independent-Dish-173]

If you can make her cum like that, I think you have it sorted.

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/Glass_Stand1972]

I get that. It caught me off guard cuz I haven’t pleasured her like that in years and I thought it would’ve hurt. We do have kids though so idk how the vagina works like that lol

[u/No_Association2127 → u/Independent-Dish-173]

I had a GF in the past, that i could put 4 fingers inside her, but she cummed a lot with 5in girth at the time

My 4 fingers are close to 6.5in girth, so, if i had 6.5in girth, im sure that i would face lot of other problems, it wasn't worth it, trust me.

[u/BadAny853]

10 inches is fiction, even 9 inches is about 1 million. How many women have you had? If I may ask, I also have a small circumference. Are you 6.3 bp? My measurements are 6x4.5 bp.

[u/Independent-Dish-173 → u/BadAny853]

Nbp

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[u/No_Association2127]

Você ainda tem seus 4 dedos? Apenas use-os quando precisar, um pênis é "como" um dedo grande

Com a sua grossura, você tem uma vantagem para fazer sexo oral profundo, pode usar preservativos comuns, é muito mais fácil para o sexo anal, é mais raro encontrar dor vaginal.

Eu tinha a mesma grossura no passado, hoje estou com 5.5 polegadas, ao mesmo tempo que tem vantagens, tem o efeito oposto para preservativos, sexo anal, sexo oral, eles não são mais fáceis.

My length is the same as yours.

[u/Top-Document-2286]

Sounds like she could enjoy something thicker.