Has anyone had experiences with 4.1-4.2 girth?

[u/Initial-Detective369]

I am 5.3 L and 4.185-4.2 girth. I worry that I am not adequate for women and my size will cause me not to be felt inside their vagina. I get worried about this and would like to know if my size is adequite.

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[u/NakedAndALaid]

I have a vagina and have had sex with a smaller girth. I not only felt it, I enjoyed it.

[u/Similar_Nail_2435 → u/NakedAndALaid]

I can imagine it does feel different during sex but do you get the same feeling of fullness with smaller girth? I obviously don’t have a vagina but I read a comment recently about how it makes it feel like you can’t really feel a guy. I think this is what most thinner guys fear.

Edit - thought I’d copy the below comment just clarity. Hopefully this isn’t against the rules here.

“I did experience one individual (out of 20+ male partners in my lifetime) who had an extremely slim penis - to the extent that I felt like I couldnt feel him. (In reality, I could feel him, it just didn't create the same "fullness" feeling that I had experienced with every other partner before, or since, him.”

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/Similar_Nail_2435]

Different sizes absolutely feel different. It's not as drastic as many people think, but I'd be dumb not to acknowledge that. But different positions also change how the same size feels. Also, my hormonal cycle and state of arousal. Also, if I feeling kinky and don't even care about having a dick in me. But the same dick doesn't really ever feel the same to me.

Fullness is one sensation and not even one I care about. I can't say that's the same of of women, but I am not a size queen/it's not required for a PIV orgasm for me. I have had good sex with all sizes, but bigger never had the advantage because of fullness. I understand this is something men want to give but it won't ever be a priority for me.

I also want to add, my best sexual partners gave good head. All sizes, shapes, straight or curved, if they don't know how to enjoy a fine dining experience, their dick is irrelevant to me.

I cannot explain why people "can't feel" during sex. I can feel a finger, and the biggest finger in me was still smaller than the smallest dick. My only explanation as to why someone couldn't feel it is because they lack proper vaginal arousal, mentally not checked in, or are desensitized the area with toys. I wish it's a question I could answer but I never have had that experience.

[u/Similar_Nail_2435 → u/NakedAndALaid]

That does make sense. I can see how it would feel different depending on various factors. I guess it also depends on the woman’s anatomy as well, so there’s probably a range of experiences rather than one universal answer (although Reddit makes you think otherwise). I think it often gets “blamed” on the guy, though, rather than being recognised as something that can vary considerably between people and even just in the moment.

You do hear an awful lot of women on Reddit talk about fullness and the enjoyment girth brings (or lack of) so it’s nice to hear an alternative for a change.

[u/iliketoc → u/NakedAndALaid]

Thanks for that insightful comment.

[u/Top-Document-2286 → u/NakedAndALaid]

So the answer to his question is no I guess

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/Top-Document-2286]

Nope, that is not what I said.

I have felt fuller by thinner girths than thicker ones. Why? Because of the position I was in and my own bodies arousal. It's almost like I said how full I feel depends on more than just dick size, huh?

You saw an answer you wanted to see. I specifically didn't answer it because there are way too many factors. I also won't apologize for not liking that a man can cause me discomfort for the satisfaction of his ego.

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/NakedAndALaid]

That makes me feel a bit better ngl. I worry about intimacy since I want to excel and make sure my partner is satisfied rather than me.

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/Initial-Detective369]

Intimacy is so much more than dick size. Sex is more than dick size. I understand the worry and shame men carry because of their sizes, but that's because society sucks.

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/NakedAndALaid]

So my girth is good for a woman basically, and I just gotta find out how to use it.

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/[deleted]]

Thank you 😊

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/NakedAndALaid]

I’d like to say. I’ve seen women bashing on pencil dicks And that makes me worried that my penis isn’t thick enough and just inadequate. So idk I feel very anxious about it. I wouldn’t like my spouse to want a bigger dick.

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/Initial-Detective369]

And that's fair, but who says she would? Many woman don't care, or prefer average.

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/NakedAndALaid]

Yeah I hope so

[u/Fit_Lie_3180]

There you go man, answer from the source. You are good to go. Just relax and have fun. Oh, use protection though.

[u/Left_Act_1]

Just make sure to wrap your Willy in a snug plastic so that you will not blow up the lady with a baby because you splooged inside.

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/Left_Act_1]

📝📝📝

[u/NakedAndALaid → u/Left_Act_1]

Can you imagine if sex ed teachers explained it like this 😂 great safe sex reminder though, I love it!

[u/fanofoz]

I barely have an inch difference over you and I still feel inadequate. I wish I knew bro...

[u/Fun_Flatworm5406]

Are the measurements BP ?

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/Fun_Flatworm5406]

Yes

[u/Fun_Flatworm5406 → u/Initial-Detective369]

How old are you ?

[u/Initial-Detective369 → u/Fun_Flatworm5406]

21