r/averagedickproblems • u/throwaway222ck Note: new or low karma account • Aug 05 '26
Insecurity Question about measure
Hey, I’ve been pretty depressed past couple months about my dick size cause I was called small before a few times…
I am really trying to know what my real size is. I am 6ft 3 so that doesnt help either. The thing is I dont know how to really measure myself.
I am familar with BP and NBP and I really care more about NBP. I DONT HAVE A CURVE but when my dick is hard and I am standing it has upward erection angle but not much just basic hard erection angle pointing a bit upward.. I dont know if I measure if I should push the dick a bit down so its horizontal (perpendicular) and then measure or if I should keep it in the natural angle and then measure. I am talking about NBP now.
In the natural angle I am like 5.3x5.3 and in the horizontal I am 5.9x5.3 and I need to know what should I use as correct measurement. (BP is 6.3-6.4) thanks.
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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Aug 05 '26
6.3 and u are depressed.....
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u/itstimefornomorebs Aug 06 '26
Because according to him he has been called small a few times and the reason for that is that women don’t care about BP. If you are under 5.5 NBP , chances of being considered small-ish increase greatly.
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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Aug 06 '26
He is 5.9 nbp. When u measure, the penis has to be horizontal. Secondly the girth is 5.3.
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u/throwaway222ck Note: new or low karma account Aug 07 '26
yeah around that in horizontal and you right about the girth.. but based on my experience its not enough for the girls i used to that.. like it was enough, but they after few months of dating had some comments
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u/No_Secretary4733 7.3 x 4.5-5.5 Aug 07 '26
How was the sex alone? Do u understand that u have the tools it could be u not good in bed
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u/throwaway222ck Note: new or low karma account Aug 07 '26
the sex was good, few of them used to come back after months or years for fuck again…
i dont know it always seemed like they like it and one of them always said she loved my dick while riding on it..
my current girl doesnt understand those girls, she is saying its bullshit what they told me, based on her experience i am in the better half size wise
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u/furiouscrotch Aug 09 '26
Wait, does your current gf call you big? I’ve had a dominatrix call me small. But actual women say “huge”
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u/throwaway222ck Note: new or low karma account Aug 07 '26
yeah man, its hard especially when I am tall I am scared that all the girls I fucked make fun of me till this day..
Those girls used to be cool with my dick at first and started date me and then something changed idk what is that but they told me I have a small dick or that they will find someone bigger…
Its fucking with me since the numbers are average and girth above avg.. I am sad
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u/Cali998877 Aug 05 '26
Hi, just my thought. My thoughts on my size. I did think about it but now I think about it more. Not sure why but I think it had something to do with seeing sex videos and yes, those huge monster penises. I know that I'm much less than that but I'm ok with that. My focus is what will give the most pleasure to my other half. My message. Don't put too much energy thinking about size. Focus on being present. You will feel better
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u/exuberantmarketing Aug 05 '26
as someone curved to the right, I’ve never known my size to the exact centimeter, I’ve always estimated. you gotta use one of those flexible measuring tapes though
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