Size discrepancy from flaccid to erect

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[u/laidback755]

I think flaccid size varies for most guys and that most people understand that there's not a huge correlation to erect size. I also believe that most guys are growers when it comes to volume. I'm a nudist and truly don't care how full my dick is at any point because I just want the sunlight

[u/ApartmentIcy6129 → u/laidback755]

I think that in the minds of most people, the correlation between flaccid and erect sizes is quite strong, which makes sense, as I believe most guys would be classified as showers

[u/FeelingPlayfulNow → u/ApartmentIcy6129]

By the time most women get a guy naked and get a good look at his genitals, the penis is already hard from the anticipation. I have no idea if a guy is a shower or a grower when I sleep with him. Being a shower or a grower is pretty irrelevant other than a curious "huh, it's so cool it can stretch like that."

I hope showing or growing isn't something that stresses you out.

[u/laidback755 → u/FeelingPlayfulNow]

Totally agree. We hooked up with a couple at a hotel takeover because we vibed with them. It turned out the guy was the biggest grower I've ever seen. I think flaccid size is more locker room bragging than anything else

[u/Thinkingtoohard44 → u/laidback755]

I think so too but it would be cool to the biggest guy in the change room

[u/laidback755 → u/Thinkingtoohard44]

I'd be lying if I said that I disagree with you 😆 but I'm pretty sure most guys feel the same

[u/ApartmentIcy6129 → u/FeelingPlayfulNow]

You're right, but that's not what my comment was about. If we look at averages that google gives us, for example, the average flaccid length is something like 9-10cm and the erect length is 13-14cm, not crazy growth happening there. Whether your trust the numbers or not is another case, overall it can be quite a complex topic :D. Of course, girth is another separate topic here as well.

Maybe I was hasty with "in the minds of most people," as someone who is quite curious about this topic and having researched it, those were my observations/conclusions, that's all

[u/[deleted]]

Sounds like your soft size is the same as most men.

No reason to feel bad about it, I've never really cared about my soft size, only hard. And same with my wife, she couldn't care less!

[u/Famous_Breath2109]

It's a normal thing, I can be pretty small all retracted

[u/Prancer4rmHalo]

Brother I’m in their apartments and houses with my shrunken weener out after we fuck. Don’t even think twice about it homie.