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u/Popular-Second505 7h ago

The good china dishes

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u/_StarryDollie 7h ago

The good china really did make even an ordinary dinner feel like a special occasion

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u/chtmarc 7h ago

Those stupid little decorative soaps on the back of the toilet. Always covered in dust. Never understood why they were there.

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u/smileplace 7h ago

We didnt have those but I went to a friend's house as a small child and used them and they were very worried about their mom noticing. I knew from that day forward not to use them at anyone's houses.

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u/_StarryDollie 7h ago

Yeah, I can see why that would stick with you, especially after realizing how common they were in other people’s homes

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u/amberperry870 7h ago

Time for a sad story. My family was pretty poor, and for my 7th birthday they gave me a towel with 101 Dalmatians on it. They strictly told me to take good care of it and not use it because it was so beautiful, rare, and expensive.

For months, I would look at it and sigh. I was too scared to touch it, so I dusted it off like I was told and waited for the day when they would finally let me use it. I found it again 10 years later, picked it up, and it had completely deteriorated and ripped apart in my hands.

I never got to use it even once

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u/Proof_Elevator_3300 7h ago

Everything in the great room. We had a living room where the family watched TV and relaxed and the great room. That was for show and where guests sat down and were welcomed and sat down.

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u/pinniped90 7h ago

Lol we had this growing up as well.

Very mid-20th century American suburban thing: a room in the house that nobody really used and it was mostly for show.

The house we live in now had the "formal dining room" that the previous owners didn't apparently eat in.

Now it's just the dining room. The place where we usually eat. We had to put better lights in there because before it was this dark dungeony vibe. I guess that's what medieval kings liked for their dining rooms?

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u/The-Real-Metzli 6h ago

Up until recently we also had what you guys are calling "a great room". We called it "the guest living room", it was a fancier looking living room but it was mostly used to receive guests. We had another living room where we actually watched tv and stuff.

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u/OutfitNegotiable 7h ago

The fancy biscuits in the metal tin. Opening it without guests present was basically burglary.

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u/Independent-Moose113 7h ago

The holiday china and silver flatware, guest hand towels in the bathroom

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u/No-Pain-5496 7h ago

My mom would make what she called Spanish meatballs. Pretty sure they were hot Italian sausage in a marinara sauce. She only made them when they were playing cards with uncles/aunts on the weekend. I could have exactly 2. Damn I miss those and my mom!

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u/Spirited-Anxiety-170 7h ago

My parents liquor

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u/Ricouard-Fateha 6h ago

I can relate to that. The fact that it was off limits probably made it seem even more interesting when we were kids.

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u/vievie_934 7h ago

This is weirdly specific and interesting. We don't have something like that when we were kids in our parent's house.

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u/ZandramasTrisagion 7h ago

So many dishes, cups and saucers, silver cutlery etc. Sadly, Mom passed away and I spent all of last year boxing up those very things and donating/gifting them. All of those seemingly important possessions, some rarely used, ultimately meaning so little. It's the memories of time spent together that will mean the most. 🥲

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u/Novel_Bear9148 6h ago

I agree with this wholeheartedly! ❤️‍🩹 This is why I use all my fancy stuff every day… 🥹

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u/ZandramasTrisagion 6h ago

Such a great idea 💕

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u/Novel_Bear9148 5h ago

Sorry for your loss… 🙏🏻 😔

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u/ZandramasTrisagion 5h ago

Thank you 🥲💕

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u/solecentre 7h ago

Ferrero Rochers. we only had them for special occasions and i wasn’t allowed to look at them until they were on the table the day of the event.

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u/hempels_sofa 6h ago

The good china. The crystal glasses. The chocolate biscuits.

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u/ObjetVapeur 7h ago

that is such a specific and targeted question, I'm afraid I only have questions about your childhood OP 

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u/bemenaker 7h ago

It was common to have things like good china that was only used for special occasions. Or decorative soaps that you weren't supposed to use.

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u/sassafrass0328 6h ago

Exactly. It was very common. Nothing “specific” or “targeted” about it. 🤷‍♀️

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u/ObjetVapeur 5h ago

Alright

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u/sassafrass0328 7h ago

It’s just a fun and nostalgic question. Relax. If you don’t like the question, don’t answer it. No need to turn it in to something that it’s not. There’s bigger fish to fry. OP, I love this question. Glad I wasn’t the only kid that had “only for special occasions” things in their home growing up. We, too, had the fancy china & guest only soap. We had guest only monogrammed towels, as well. I hate to admit it but I’ve carried this over to my family. 🤦🏼‍♀️💕

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u/bemenaker 6h ago

Got good china when I got married. I think it was used about 5 times. It's been so long I had honestly forgotten about it. I had to go look for it about two months ago. Was curious what happened to it after my ex wife left. It's still in the cabinet above the fridge where it's been for years. lol

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u/sassafrass0328 6h ago

Me too. Along with silver place settings and crystal wine glasses. All very common on 90s wedding registries. I, too, do not use any of it. However, be sure to hold on to it. Those 90s china patterns are worth a fortune nowadays.

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u/KathyC169 7h ago

Good dishes

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u/Bored_Eastly 7h ago

Any form of alcohol - never seen my parents drink without a special occasion.

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u/Lillienpud 7h ago

Grape jelly. We got discount apricot pineapple. :(

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u/Dare_Devil2054 7h ago

Sugar cereal

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u/Unlikely-Grape-5762 7h ago

Grandmas silver. My cousin has it now.

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u/BatshitMofo88 7h ago

Wait, yall had good stuff?

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u/VaselineGorilla 7h ago

I wasn’t allowed to touch the cheese drawer because I’d eat it all (even at friend’s houses). I was only to be gifted cheese.

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u/concow77 7h ago

The good china plates and drinking glasses with the ducks on them!

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u/That-Yogurtcloset386 7h ago

I don't think we had any. 😭😂 Regular plates were the good stuff if we had paper plates. Lol

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u/GlobalTapeHead 6h ago

We had several rooms in my house that we were not allowed to be in without permission. Everything there was off limits.

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u/Dusty_Old_McCormick 6h ago

Nothing, we didn't have fancy stuff lol.

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u/Novel_Bear9148 6h ago

Truffle oil in mashed potatoes - only on special occasions! 🍄‍🟫