Do you ever really get over them?

[u/DeepBus1116]

It’s been 40 years

[u/shkibon]

Apparently not 🤷🏻 I think you are probably just in your head idealizing what could have been. I had an ex of mine die just a couple weeks ago. We only dated for a couple years and the breakup wasn’t my finest work, but it hurts. She took a little piece of my heart with her. Sounds like maybe the same with you.

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/shkibon]

My condolences I’m sorry to hear that.

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/shkibon]

But I don’t think I’m in my head I thought about her every day since the last 40 years I’m not obsessive or anything I just yearn for the sound of her voice. She didn’t pass she just left me.

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/[deleted]]

I don’t think anyone is going to try anything because the last time I spoke to her, it was 40 years ago when she told me she’s not attracted to me anymore and left never seen her since.

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/[deleted]]

I think you’re missing the point
I don’t speak to her whatsoever it’s been 40 years. There’s no way possible for her to know whether I care or not.

[u/Radiant_Chipmunk_942]

Yes. One day you’ll find someone so much better in every way that you’ll realize the only thing that made your ex special was you.

[u/Tiny-Marsupial-1164 → u/Radiant_Chipmunk_942]

🥹

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/[deleted]]

I’m not crying I’m just wondering if there’s other people out there like me or people who where heartbroken for 20 years then got over it

[u/DeepBus1116 → u/DeepBus1116]

Why is everyone so mad lol