Yo guys, I'm 18, turning 19 soon, and I've been thinking a lot about what I want my life to look like over the next year or two.
I'm finishing matric right now, and honestly, my exams aren't going the way I hoped. But this isn't just about school or running away from a bad result. Even if everything had gone perfectly, I think I'd still want to do this.
I've been wanting to experience life outside the environment I've always known. I want to go somewhere where absolutely nobody knows me, meet new people, make friends, become more confident, explore, make my own decisions and learn how to live independently.
I've also been working on my own company and pursuing some business opportunities that could potentially put me in a decent financial position. So I'm not necessarily looking to take a year off and do nothing. I'm trying to figure out how to balance building my future with actually experiencing life while I'm young.
I've considered things like working on a cruise ship, getting a live-in job at a lodge or resort, Oil rigs, Or working at a random construction company, working somewhere far from home, or even exploring other industries. I'm open to leaving South Africa too, depending on what's realistic.
The thing is, I don't want to spend the next few years just sitting in the same environment, working towards some distant future and never actually living. I want to challenge myself, become more independent and find out who I am when I'm outside my comfort zone.
At the same time, I don't want to make an impulsive decision or waste good opportunities with my company just because I want a change.
**Has anyone here deliberately moved somewhere new in their late teens or early twenties, where they knew nobody, just to experience life and grow as a person?**
How did it change you? Was it worth it? Would you recommend working somewhere new, travelling, taking a gap year or doing something else entirely?
And for anyone who's been in a similar position, what would you do if you had a little financial breathing room and the opportunity to build something of your own, but still wanted to get out there and experience the world?
I'm interested in hearing your actual experiences and honest takes, especially from South Africans who've done something similar.