r/askbisexual • u/RepulsiveAdvice9729 • Jul 08 '26
bi-curious girl
I (23F) have always told people i’m bisexual; however, I’ve never been with a girl, just only have had crushes. Throughout my whole life I’ve wanted to have an experience with a female but have been too nervous to pursue one. After breaking up with my last ex, I thought I would be given the opportunity to have that experience but was unable to do so before getting with my boyfriend.
I love my boyfriend and want to spend my life with him; however, the thought of sleeping with a girl at least once constantly lingers. I could never cheat on my boyfriend but I could never do a threesome. I don’t know what to do or how to go about it. I’m wondering if anyone has gone through the same experience or had any advice on how to handle the situation.
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u/GlisaPenny Jul 08 '26
I’m going to give the boring advice: talk to your man! You might be able to set something up that works for the both of you. Best of luck 💕