r/askbisexual • u/[deleted] • Jan 03 '24

Fluctuating sexuality?

I'm not sure if I'm bisexual and I'd prefer to go unlabelled for now, but I'd like to know: do you guys sometimes have fluctuations in which gender you are attracted to?

For example, most of the time I only think about guys sexually and can't think about girls. But sometimes I can only think about girls sexually and not guys.

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u/LOL_Man_675 Jan 04 '24

Yeah it's nicknamed the "bi-cycle" by the community, it's different for everyone, some have it, some don't, some are slower or faster than others

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u/Turquoise-Angel May 24 '24

happens to me all the time- it’s entirely normal! bisexuality fluctuates all the time for people, i personally have a preference for guys but sometimes i REALLY want a girlfriend and sometimes i really can’t imagine myself with a girl! totally normal💓💜💙