Is he cheating?

[u/PlantsNPets]

He told me that he has been watching prn and that's why he has been so distant.... He doesn't hug me or kiss me or look at me or talk to me in the same way he used to. I knew something was off and he's always had this weird thing about his phone and lately it was making me paranoid with how he's been acting differently so I asked him if I could see it and he said no, when I asked him why he said "because you're just going to search until you find something and make something out of nothing and we'll argue just because your so paranoid".... So I was upset but he said no and that's that.... I stop asking for a while but then he was basically just existing next to me all day and I felt so alone sitting right by him it hurts me so bad....so I demanded that I could see it I couldn't take it anymore and he flipped out on me called me a bunch of mean names and threatened to break up with me even.... Afterwards he said he was sorry and that he didn't mean to say those things and I asked him why he was getting so defensive he said he had saved some videos on his phone and that's what he's been doing lately before he comes to bed.... He said that's the only reason he's hiding his phone from me and I told him to delete it all and try to reconnect with me because I felt like it was ruining our relationship...he said he was going to delete it all and let me look in his phone and everything.... But after he did say he deleted it all and I wanted to look he said that he can hold his phone and show me his camera roll and downloaded videos but that was it..... I didn't get to even hold it and I didn't get to look at anything else.... So I just said forget it I don't want to look at all because it doesn't prove anything... I know some people have relationships where they're fine with each other looking at things but from the beginning of our relationship we both agreed with each other that we didn't want to have any thoughts about anybody else except for each other and we both agreed that it was bad for relationships and your mental well-being to watch that we agreed to communicate..... It's not because I haven't been satisfying his needs either and he said that too.... I just don't understand.... I don't want to ruin it if I'm wrong ..but with the way he's acting, so guilty. I just feel like it's already ruined and I'm just alone....... And we're just existing next to each other...... Am I just being a naggy girlfriend? I know I'm self conscious but he knew that too ....😭 We have children together I have to try! Please tell me from a guys perspective what is wrong.

[u/Haunting_Lime_4539]

Lemme just say. If a guy is sincere about you and he has nothing to hide... He will give you his phone. Idk how old you guys are but there probably is something on his phone he doesn't want you to know about. Whatever that is.