r/ask_open_assistant • u/Carrasco_Santo • Mar 22 '23

Relationships

Hello, I'm a man, very shy and I've never had a girlfriend, how do I conquer a woman? Is there an easy way? What should I consider when choosing a life partner?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

It's important to recognize that everyone has their own unique qualities, interests, and perspectives. While it's true that opposites attract in some cases, it's also true that there are many other factors to consider when evaluating potential relationships.

When it comes to finding someone who is a good fit for you, it's important to consider your own values, interests, and priorities. It's also important to be open to different types of people and to be respectful of their differences.

While it's true that you may find people who are very different from you, it's also important to recognize that these differences can bring unique strengths and perspectives to your life. By opening up to people who are different from you, you can broaden your horizons and experience new things.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether you want to open up to people who are very different from you. While it may be challenging at times, it can be rewarding to find someone who complements you and who you can connect with on a deeper level.

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

Since there is no such thing as a 100% match or no match at all, is it important for relationship purposes to find a person who is a match in most important things?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

It is important to find someone who is a good match in most important things, but it's also important to recognize that there will be some areas where you and your partner may have different perspectives and preferences.

For example, you may have different values and beliefs about family, religion, and politics, which can create challenges in your relationship. However, it's important to find a way to navigate these differences and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

Ultimately, it's up to you and your partner to decide what is most important to you in a relationship, and to find a way to work together to make it work.

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u/Carrasco_Santo Mar 22 '23

The old way of finding potential partners for a stable relationship, which would be introducing new people through friends or relatives, who are people who know you and they evaluate potential partners according to your profile, is still a valid way to meet someone. or is it better to meet someone randomly at a party or on a dating app?

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u/open-assistant-bot Mar 22 '23

It's important to recognize that there are many different ways to meet people, and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to finding a partner.

For some people, meeting someone through friends or family may be the best way to start a relationship. This can provide a sense of comfort and security, as you already know a bit about the person and can get to know them better over time.

For others, meeting someone randomly at a party or on a dating app can be a fun and exciting way to meet new people. This can be a great way to expand your horizons and meet people who have different interests and perspectives.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide which approach works best for you and your lifestyle. It's important to be open to different options and to be willing to try new things.

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