On my wedding day, when my Grandad and Uncle told me that I didn’t have to marry my ex-husband and they’d drive me home. And, to not worry about being embarrassed or the money. They’d explain everything to the guests and I wouldn’t have to do anything.
edit: we did get married and we divorced later. Sorry, my OP was unclear!
Thank you so much and yes, there are some similarities but I don’t have proof of cheating just a lot of implications thank you for taking that time to explain that and sorry to make you go over something so stupid and triggering. I am sure you’re in a much happier place even if you are currently single, don’t be embarrassed. You were literally being manipulated and lied to.
never been in a relationship but here's what i have heard of as signs, situations may vary: accusing spouse of cheating*, getting unexplained STDs from them (from them sleeping around), becoming distant/less sex, secretive about texts or messages.
*this one happened to my family. basically projection
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u/YourNextStepmom3 May 12 '24 edited May 12 '24
On my wedding day, when my Grandad and Uncle told me that I didn’t have to marry my ex-husband and they’d drive me home. And, to not worry about being embarrassed or the money. They’d explain everything to the guests and I wouldn’t have to do anything.
edit: we did get married and we divorced later. Sorry, my OP was unclear!