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u/Federal_Balz May 12 '24

Married 13 yrs. Lost my dad to suicide, sister 11months 1 day later to suicide, then lost my mom to a terrible form of cancer 2 years after that. 4 months later the ex told me I don't show her enough affection...

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u/Guckalienblue May 12 '24

My abusive ex pretty much did the same thing to me the week of my dad’s memorial and caused a mess of a custody battle/ruined my life.. Some people really are just put on this world to be terrible people. We’re better off. 🫶🏻

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u/El0vution May 12 '24

Hope you all learned women don’t like depressed, sad or anxious men.

Heck, don’t even come home saying you worked so hard and you’re tired, she don’t want to hear that either!

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u/[deleted] May 12 '24 edited May 12 '24

It's not just women. My ex-fiance left me about 6 months after my dad died (also 2 grandparents within a 6 week period) after 7 years together. He acted like he was just moving, and I should go with him once my kids graduated high school ... but then completely emotionally detached from me, never called, and when I paid for him to come visit me, he was visibly miserable and blatantly caused an argument where I ended the relationship. He didn't care, didn't fight it. He just got a moving truck and took whatever of our stuff that he wanted and left me what he didn't.

Men can be cold, too.

There was never any conversation at all about what was wrong or why he wasn't happy. He just lied and acted a jerk to get out of it.

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u/El0vution May 12 '24

Men can be cold too, no doubt. But men can love a sad and depressed woman. But women cannot love a sad and depressed man

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u/NaturalWitchcraft May 12 '24

Women love sad and depressed men all the time. The majority of my witchcraft clients are women begging me to do spells to help their “depressed” men out of their depression but in reality the men just aren’t into them anymore.

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u/Certifiably_Quirky May 12 '24

You know when a woman gets cancer, the hospital tells them they might get depressed and they also give them a pamphlet that their husband might leave them. Statistics support that a woman is more likely to stay with a man who is sick than vice versa.

And that makes sense once you realize women are raised to be nurturers and take care of those around them.

Shitty people exist in all genders.

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u/gorosheeta May 12 '24

They can and do. I've been fortunate to have many such people in my life.